1. Past Traumatic Episodes
Yes, your traumatic episodes from your past should remain in the past. Don't tell your friend. And don't tell your spouse as well. One day they could spill it in an argument or a squabble and that will bring some bad blood. It may be too much to wipe away. And you don't want your friend treating your suggestions and behaviors based on your past.
2. Unbelievable Dreams
Why bother your close friends with goals they can't possibly comprehend? The goals they wouldn't necessarily understand is better in your plan book until they become actions. Some dreams are just to big to believe. And that's because you are the one dreaming. You see it. But they don't. And some negative words of disapproval or unbelief can affect your works.
3. Medical History
Your intimate health details or those of your family should be private. Keep them with your doctor. Unless you are going to marry the person. Friends who don't know how to control their tongues could come back hurting you with these secrets. Beside, they could be your friend today only to be your enemies tomorrow. So stay safe, keep your medical details to your chest.
4. Other People's Secrets:
You don't have the right to forward someone's secret to another soul. Why would you even do this?
Don't let your love or friendship with another person carry you away to the extent you start relating another person's secret to them. If you do so you damage your character and the close friend will understand that even his or her secrets too are not safe with you. You could be telling another person their own secret tomorrow.
5. Funny Feelings About Their Peeps:
Your funny feelings about their partners, friends and family members should die in your chest. At times people cross the line with this. You feel a funny affection for your husband's best friend or younger brother and you relate such info to him. For what purpose exactly? And how do you expect him to be free in allowing a natural and innocent activity involving just both of you in the future? These things should remain with you.
6. Numbers Of Persons You Have Slept With:
Why are you even going to tell your spouse this? Friends could end up becoming spouses. You don't want your spouse to have such info. It's just not right. They could say they want the info. But don't spill. It has away of staying in their brains. Once you spill. So be careful with this.
