A bit of clarity: we ain't married yet, and we're not in a hurry as well.
She just finished school this year (Med Lab), awaiting internship & then service later. After which employment follows. That's more like 2-3 more years.
So right now, we'll both focus on giving our boy, Carlos...the best we've got. We're both novice on this task, but we're learning the ropes quickly as well.
Marriage is not life's greatest achievement and so we'll not be rushed into it by society and public perceptions.
We'll do it if need be and when we're both absolutely ready.
