Brothers And Sisters In Islam And Non-Muslims too.
The day you marry your wife, is the day Allah places a trust and responsibility on you to give her the rights as a wife and she becomes your family, your comforter, the mother of your children... so fear Allah in regards to your duties as a husband!
O dear sister, When you marry your husband you leave your birth home and you become a real woman. your husband becomes your family,your maintainer and protector, the father of children, your friend and lover so treat him well and follow him to the ends of the earth... so fear Allah in regards to how you treat him.
Marriage in Islam completes half of your deen. Do not be swayed by good looks or money as these will come and go. Marry a man who Truly fears and loves Allah. Who puts Islam 1st before anything Learn and walk in deen together. Go in a marriage with the purpose in getting closer to Allah and In sha Allah it will be a blessed marriage, In sha Allah !
Men !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This wise man think with his brain not desires.
This is why men of Taqwa.
Marry for Deen then beauty ....
Be a Man of IMAN so that you deserve to be her MAN.
You're not a gentlemen if you're not gentle with your wife.
You might think she wants your money and gifts.
But the RIGHT WOMAN wants your time,your smile,your honesty,your effort and you to put her as priority.
She doesn't just want you to TELL her that you love her....
She wants you to show her ACTIONS over words.Brothers.
Women !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
There are four women in Paradise and they are:
1 a chaste and an obedient one to Allah and her husband,
2 patient, content, coy,
3 and reproductive who guards her husband’s property and herself in his absence and holds her tongue in his presence.
4 A widow who devotes her life for her children and does not marry lest they fail.
As for the four women of Hell -fire.” “
The woman who has a shrew tongue and is vulgar towards her husband, who does not guard herself in his absence and injures him with her tongue in his presences.
The one who charges her husband burdens greater than he can bear.
The one who shows herself to men and goes out doors displaying her beauty.
The one who does not concern herself except with food, drink and sleep.
Further she is not eager to pray or to obey Allah and her husband, such a woman who in addition to that, leaves her husband’s home without his permission is accursed by the people of fire until she repents to Allah.” (Bukhari)
A woman who fears Allah should do her best to obey Allah and her husband and seek his pleasures because he himself is her paradise or hell fire. The Prophet said
The Prophet (sala llah alayhi wa salam) said,“Allah will not look at a woman who is ungrateful to her husband, while she is unable to do without him.” (Al-Hakim)
The Prophet (sala llah alayhi wa salam) said,“The first things a woman is called to account for on the Day of Judgment are her prayers and her (relations with her) husband.” (As-Suyuti in Al-Jami Al-Kabir)
The Prophet (sala llah alayhi wa salam) said,“When a man sends for his wife for the satisfaction of his need, she should go to him even if she may be occupied in baking bread (cooking food).” (Tirmidhi)
Be a WOMAN of DEEN so that you deserve to be his QUEEN.
Allah will not accept your excuse on the Day of Judgement: 'O Allah! Everyone else was doing it'.
What is Love? Love is how Khadija RA supported our Prophet (peace be upon him) in his time of need. Love is when our Prophet took the glass that Aisha RA drank from and put his lips on the same exact spot . So tell your partner you love them today, May Allah increase your love. Dear husband. I hope Allah grants me your company in Jannah.
A pious wife can make poor man feel like the richest man in the world.
.May Allah (SWT) ease all your difficulties and grant you a pious and righteous spouse
