It starts off badly, with Kara declaring that she finally feels like she can 'have it all' - a genuine line of dialogue in a show about female empowerment. I feel like everytime Supergirl does something like this a kitten dies. It's this kind of clumsy handling of the show's themes that are turning people off – subtlety is your friend, Supergirl, embrace it. We don't need everything pointed out to us.