MISTAKES IN FINDING A DATE.
In a world where many singles are digital natives, it’s becoming increasingly easy to swipe for a date, rather than look up from our devices and notice all of the dateable people physically surrounding us every day. Sure, the perfect Tinder pick-up line may not be too hard to master (for most people), but what about interacting with someone the old-fashioned way?
With 38 percent of American singles now online dating, it’s time for a refresher on how to spark with someone IRL. For this, we consulted eight professional matchmakers to find out their best tips for meeting someone offline. While you can keep your online dating profile, in the name of efficiency, it only seems fair to put a little effort into your love life during the many hours you’re (hopefully) not looking at a screen.
Here’s what the matchmakers had to say:
1. Expand your social circle.
“First, you have to put yourself in places and situations that make it possible [to meet someone]. Finding events and activities that you enjoy will help you meet new people outside of your circle. Expanding your circle is the best way to meet a partner — you never know who can introduce you to your match. While you are out and about, have the intention that you are open. Smile, make eye contact and be willing to say hi to people you are attracted to.
2. Take on hobbies that get you interacting with people.
“The person you’re meant to be with is someone who shares your lifestyle. They have the same taste in how they spend their time and the same taste in how they spend their money. In other words, go out and do stuff you actually like. Make time for your hobbies and interests, but make sure to invest in the interests that get you interacting with people instead of solo-activities, like knitting, reading or swimming. If you attended two events a week, like networking parties, BBQs or happy hours, you’d most likely be in a relationship in three months. Challenge yourself to invest in your social calendar.
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