Oasis is full of fakes, liars, cheats, scammers, married men etc. Customer service on oasis is so bad, the site has inactive profiles from over 12 months matched with active profiles. The matching profile system on this fake site is useless, there are men on the site with very old photos from 20yrs ago,everyone lie about their age. Its better to go out and socialize and meet people outside of Oasis, wouldn't recommend this site to anyone looking for genuine relationships. Whilst the scammers are reasonably easy to pick it is the offensive chats that I find quite hard to take. I am unsure why a middle age man who describes himself as 'cheeky' feels that he has the right to be so foul. I have had quite a few of these and just feel sad that people feel that they have a right to be so horrible via a keyboard. I understand that often woman are known to behave the same. I wouldnt recommend it unless you are keen for a hookup Its a free site so......... Dont recommend this site at all Yes there are scammers if they ask you to chat by email than you no to be careful don't do that but what's hard is that I'm a male and searching for a nice woman but you start chatting and they think your a stalker whatever you say they then just delete you it's a battle between the sexes, I've come to the point were I just live alone now and have been most of my life it's the way of the future woman seem to have stop dating these days I just work come home work come home no point going out either as they just think you are harassing them the 90s were the best what's happen to the good old days people are really messed up. Oasis is a scam site, full of dodgy people, scammers, porn makers. Literally glad to be safe, alive, breathing after dangerous stalker experience, oasis did not give a crap, refused to provide me with message stream history or act in any positive or productive manner, if you use this site, be extremely careful... This site is full of sick and mentally unwell men who have marriage breakdowns on the rebound and are addicts in physical intercourse and they are not responsible about safe intercourse and they think that they are excused from getting or passing on sexually transmitted diseases that can potentially kill you.. I am very disappointed in their attitude and also who would let a stranger in their home? Are you guys for real? You could be a mass murderer.. Rejection after rejection thought I had a good profile and pics but once again not good enough for the likes of these women. Women on that site have no right to play god by being so judgemental on men's attraction. Sick to death of how women hide their profiles from me because of their god like egos or strange insecurities. There is no way to find out if my profile is good one. I do think even putting up a good profile with photos the women still act like god to block, put under review or hide their profiles from me. Then you site does allow to see other men's profiles to compare my profile too. Like how do you meant to find out if your profile is good. Women don't think of the depression of men who get rejected. The worry the site causes is not good for men's health. Site fails so many ways as men are not perfect and only human. Am totally sick of being ''liked'' by men who want easy coitus on the side. So, my female partner and I put up a genuine profile of what we wanted, a man on the side for occasional fun. This is outrageous considering that we are a bi sexual couple with all the public scrutiny of gender discrimination. All who define their own gender, like us, ban OASIS as a discriminatory patriarchal site. Post separation I went on a dating site binge. Hated a lot of others. Wasn't going to try Oasis as I had used it years ago but I did anyway. Yeah, there are a lot of rude chicks. And scam profiles trying to lure you elsewhere. It's a problem on paid sites too. I had great success. Wasn't really looking for a serious relationship and was able to meet a few chicks from this site. Slept with a few. Played around with cyber hook and story telling. And then by a complete twist of fate actually met someone who is crazily compatible with me. We've been together about 5 months now. Bottom line, if you aren't having any success, don't blame the site. And pick up your game. Coz Oasis rocks imho. Women are Rude only good site if you are a women as they get to pick and Choose who they like and can discard you at the drop of a hat most of them are just insecure don't know what they want in life they will wait 30 years if they have to woman have to much patience it's just typical of them. The site logs you out all the time. The only way to meet woman is to get out in the real world and try there as sitting on your butt behind a computer screen or your phone is just lazy and you spend your life on your phone anyway poor site give up : I am a mature member of this site. What it offers for free is good. I like being able to choose who I will reply to, and discard who I don't wish to reply to. Any problems are with the users themselves. I find that no matter how much I spell out what I do and don't want, my words are disregarded and contacts are often misleading and inappropriate. Some of the behaviour from socalled mature users beggars belief! It's a shame, because there is no reason why what is provided shouldn't be a really good 'meeting place'. I joined on line dating since Dec. The downside is many don't have profile photos you need to request. For those who are disgruntled users this is online dating you select who you chat and meet. If you don't meet the criteria and not attractive well sorry. There are men that I chatted and they kind of boring as well so I stop chatting. I prefer men who is direct to the point. If you are in online dating you have to set your ego aside, be prepared for the unexpected, emotionally prepared and toughen up. Contrary to the bad reviews I find lots of nice men here in fact I found my sparks just recently. I will definitely use this site again if ever this one won't work out. Well where should I begin, Lady's when you do actually finally choose a request from a guy Chat properly and don't just leave half way through a conversation it's rude. This site has only shown me what women are really like, it doesn't matter whatever profile I write it's never good enough for you and how would you start to feel getting rejected from over 1000 people and it's just as hard trying to meet a lady going out and I'm one of the more good looking men, just remember men don't live as long as you's and if you had to be as patient as you lady's say I'll be old and grey before you women actually move ya frozen finger and heart and actually bloody talk properly. Hard site to stay on regularly logs you out. Undeclared war between he's and she's. You can't talk to anyone unless they like your profile. It is free which is it's best and worst feature. If people paid they would be more considerate. So the main problem is this. I have met the same people on zoosk and interacted with them while on oasis they rejected all attempts at contact. That is the difference. General disclaimer: All third party trademarks, images and copyrights on this page are used for the purpose of comparative advertising, criticism or review. This is a public forum presenting user opinions on selected products and businesses, and as such the views expressed do not reflect the opinion of ProductReview. Further details in the.
