» » Dating Advice for Men Over 40 Dating Advice for Men Over 40 Posted by in , , Naturally outgoing and persuasive, twins began to think about the power of popularity when they noticed that being popular with their students made them more successful teachers. They eventually started creating practical tips based on their studies. They have partnered with matchmakers and dating coaches in Columbus, Ohio, helping men and women become more confident and attractive through consulting, public speaking, and classes. It was a pleasure to speak with David Bennet on and listen to his dating advice for men over 40. Following are highlights of our loosely transcribed conversation. What are some of the biggest issues for men dating over 40? But if you are having trouble dating or in relationships, many men just get mad women. What are practical tips that any man can do to be more attractive? Put your best foot forward. Attraction occurs within the older parts of our brain. Chemistry is felt even when that person is terrible for you. You can override that. Men in sleeveless shirts and motorcycles are dressing to impress other men, not women. Studies have shown that women like when men are not looking straight at the camera but a little in the distance. The biggest mistake is you think men and women think and act the same way. Men develop their body to impress women instead of their personality. Talking to women helps you understand women better. Also study the research. A new study just came out: men prefer women who compliment them a lot. When you write a message to a women, keep it confident and leave them curious to know more. Put the best spin on your life. Let women see things in your life from the best possible point of view. Set the frame, set the tone. Body language is a key thing, too. How you walk into a room, sit, etc. Make your voice a little deeper if you can and speak from the diaphragm. Walk in to meet your date like you own the place. Make sure your head is up, walk slowly, chest out. Look comfortable in the space. Another tip is at a bar, notice when a guy has a drink covering their chest. Open up your body. Spread your stuff out and take up a little more space. Put your arm around an empty chair. Seems animalistic to claim the space, but it makes you look confident. What I learned is I had to accept responsibility for my part in relationships and improve my dating skills. Take care of your body and style, but work on your personality more. When you work on these skills, you will have a greater love for life and a better life in general. To listen to the interview and hear more great dating advice for men and women over 40,.