Straight to the point, am a 24yr old lady. I have known this guy for over 5yrs but we started dating 3yrs ago.
I have been job hunting and nothing has showed up, then I decided to go into business. I borrowed 500k from my dad, and after much begging and pleadings my boyfriend loaned me 400k which must be paid back in two months with a 150k interest, making it a total of 550k.
Stella o, I don't know how it happened but somehow I got duped. Knowing my boyfriend very well, he wouldn't like to hear stories about his money, so I lied to him that everything was going on well. I had sleepless nights, I prayed, I cried, hmm and my parents don't know about this yet o because it will break their hearts plus their heath ish.
On the 50th day, my boyfriend was already restless and disturbing for his money, he said he doesn't want stories and all so I should pay back exactly the date I promised.
I managed to get extra 300k from my dad again and paid my boyfriend, convincing him that I'll pay back before August ends or first week of September, I was hoping that another deal I did would produce Money to settle the two debt.
But I got a very heartbreaking news yesterday afternoon about the deal and how my pay will be delayed till November.
I mustered courage and called my boyfriend, explained everything to him and told him to give me time to run around and get his remaining 100k plus the 150k interest.
He flared up and cut the call, after sometime he picked my call and said that am a liar, he'll never believe anything I say again and he lacks trust in me for lying this long. Then he said his whole family will hate me forever if he dares to tell them what I have done.
He gave me an ultimatum to pay back before this month runs out. Stella I don't know what to do o, am trying to run around for some loan but am just wondering whether this is enough reason to talk to me in such manner. I did not plan to be duped and God knows I have learnt my lesson. I have given him 300k from his 400k and still promised to pay the rest plus the interest but he doesn't want to hear that, I don't even know how to get the rest of the money now because I don't have friends I can run to for help, so getting the money this August will be a miracle.
He insinuated that the relationship has ended tonight. Is this enough to end a relationship?
Should I keep pleading for his forgiveness, or should I just run around, pay him back and move on.
So confused right now. No cusses please.
