This is important because American women can be completely obnoxious and entitled. When an American-born Asian women behaves in that manner, it is actually tenfold more annoying. Living in Hawaii, I am surrounded by Asian and American women. So I have tried to take advantage of this and go out on dates—if you can still call them that—with Asian women as well as American women. I immediately noticed stark differences in the way they conduct themselves. Pre Date Arranging the date is far easier with Asian women. The Asian woman listens and happily accommodates with any recommendations. She is just glad to be in your company and whatever plans you make are almost irrelevant to simply being with you. The American women is indecisive, whiny and wants you to make all the decisions. If you offer up something she does not approve of she will say so, but not offer any alternatives, not to mention the 30% chance she will flake all together. As a man, you are already annoyed with her but you move forward with the date anyway. Appearance In Hawaii things are naturally quite casual, but for a first date you still step up your dress a little. At least some jeans and a button up. This is Hawaii, again, and unless you have been here you have no idea how casual it is. However , Asian women will actually tend to overdress a bit. But when she opens her door in a nice sundress, hair and makeup done in a subtle but striking manner, combined with the pleasant aroma produced by her favorite perfume or body spray, you are fine with it. You feel good knowing she put forth effort to look good for you, for herself and doing so in tasteful way. You are proud to have her on your arm. Your American date meets you at the bar or in the parking lot of her condo. If she dressed up at all it is in a dress too tight and too short for anyone not earning meth money on a street corner. She has on so much makeup that Bozo the Clown would be resentful. In Hawaii she will usually just show up with her hair pulled back in a ponytail. Maybe some jean shorts a size too small and a tank top or t-shirt with a bra that shoves her tits up into her throat. Revealing much more while simultaneously making her less attractive. Sure, you want to bang her, but that is all. Conversation So begins the general conversation one would expect to engage in on a first date. For an Asian women this means listening and politely asking questions, while showing a genuine interest. Again, she is sincerely happy to be in your presence and is actually quite enthralled. She wants to know more about you, not your income or how you can benefit her. She will drink water, maybe a martini or craft beer you recommend. Conversation is pleasant and she answers all your questions with a refreshing authenticity. The American woman immediately orders a draft beer or maybe a shot of Jameson. At the very least the latest trendy drink, perhaps a mojito. She wants to talk about her and only her. When you talk about yourself, she interrupts and somehow still makes it about her. But we know she never intended to anyway. Only thing she brought was her ID, iPhone and some backup birth control. After Dinner Antics We come to the end of the date and as you walk the Asian women back to the car, you find yourself with her arm hooked around yours and you are opening her car door for her. Not because you feel obligated to do so, but because you actually want to. She deserves to be treated well, and you reciprocate. You may end up getting coffee somewhere and then drop her off back home. Maybe a kiss, maybe not. But you are okay with it because it was a pleasure to be out with her, you feel content. She expresses her gratitude for the evening, so much so it is almost uncomfortable. When you get home you find a text on your phone thanking you again. The America
