Having a happy home to return to after a long day at work is one of the blessings of marriage. You are always eager to see your spouse again anytime you are apart. This does not happen without being emotionally intimate with your wife or when you don't give her attention.
You don't need to create a special time or be a great comedian to keep her entertained. Just by sitting beside her, your presence can have a strong impact on making her feel connected to you.
1. Knowing what to say to keep her interested in you is very vital. Women admire men who can engage them in conversation; it is a means of connecting with their hearts. That's why a man needs to understand when his wife is in the mood to talk.
You must be the type of man that's ready to listen to whatever she has to say, whether it interests you or not. Just let her know you are following her. It's a means they use to release all the emotional and physical stress that has piled up in their minds and bodies.
Most men use conversation to disseminate information to others, while women are interested in talking to develop an emotional bond with their men. Avoiding your wife when she wants to talk can make her emotionally distant from you. This will invariably affect the physical intimacy between you.
2. Appreciate her efforts in adding value to your life. Don't do this only on Valentine's Day.
Make it a constant attitude to let her understand that you are grateful for how she manages the house, takes care of the children, cooks for the family, and accommodates your relatives.
Everything she needs is not just about money. Appreciation will make her know that you take note of her efforts and her heart will grow affectionately towards you.
3. Surprise her by doing something she doesn't believe you can do for her. Buy something precious that she needs and gift it to her.
Each time she sees the gift, her feelings for you will grow deeper. She will understand that you are concerned about her needs and this will make her emotionally connected to you.
4. Join her in doing house chores once in a while. She may be cooking, and you are looking for a way to assist her by doing something that will reduce her work in the kitchen. When you join her in doing something and you do it successfully, it will improve the feeling of harmony between the two of you.
5. Ensure that you do things that will put a smile on her face. Women's emotions develop when they are delighted or someone makes them laugh.
Anytime she's in a sad mood, you can use some jokes to change her temperament. Even during a disagreement, stimulate her with your funny behavior.
6. Always motivate her to pursue her dreams and show interest in them. When she sees that you are interested in her successful career, it will make her happy.
Each time she sees your face, she will be inspired to be prosperous. This has a positive impact on your marriage.
7. Initiate touching her when she's not expecting it. Don't do this only when you have the urge for intimacy. You can rub her shoulders and massage her legs to show that you care about her wellbeing.
