Pyar ke kyi roop hote hai. Jinko aap pyar karte hai vo aksar vo log hote hai jinke saath rehna aur time bitana aapko acha lagta hai. Ye vo log hote hai jinhe kho dena aap sahan nhi kar sakte hai. Aur vo jinke bare me aap sabse jyada parvaah karte hai. Dusri aur bhale hi koi aapke saath bura bartav behave kare ya aapko dukh pahuchaye, aap tab bhi unse sach much pyar kar sakte hai. Aap apne Mata — Pita, apni family aur apne doston ya kisi paltu janwar aur apne saathi ke liye alag alag roop me pyar mehsoos kar sakte hai. Pyar Karna Aur Pyar Me Hona Doston, Kisi ko pyar karna aur Kisi ke pyar me hona do alag alag baat hai. Ek rishte ki shuruwaat kisi ke pyar me hone jaisi hoti hai, jab aap dusre ki sirf achi cheeze hi dekhte hai aur ek tarah se apne aap ko ghane badlon me ghoomta hua mehsoos karte hai. Kuch time baad un bhavnao feelings me badlaav aa jaate hai, aur tab dusre person ke liye aapki bhavnaye aur gahri, stable, madhur aur parvaah karne wali ho jaati hai — Aap unhe pyar karne lagte hai. Pehli Nazar Ka Pyar Aap kisi aise person ko bhi pyar kar sakte hai jinhe aap theek se jante bhi nhi. Ya kisi dost ke rishte me bhi dheere dheere pyar panap sakta hai. Aur kabhi kabhi kuch logon ke liye tabhi pyar ki shuruwat hoti hai jab vo saath me sex karte hai. Pyar Ek Process Hai Normally pyar me sabse pehle sexual attraction ki feeling aati hai, fir ek bhut acchi si jabardast pyar me hone ki feeling aati hai aur uske baad bhut gehra attraction lagav hota hai jo time ke saath badhta hai aur kyi saalo tak ya jeevan bhar reh sakta hai. Agar woh aapke post ko like karti hai toh samjh jaiye ki woh aapko pasand karti hai. Agar woh aapke har massage ka reply karti hai iska matlab hai she likes you, agar woh aapko acha responce deti hai toh she is like you, jab aap do teen din omline nahi ate hai toh woh aapko text karti hai aur thora gussa hoti hai thats means she likes you. Wo marei dost thi par mujay uss sai pyaar hogaya jab mainay ussay bataya tou uss nai inkaar kar diya. Phir mainai ussay kaha kya tum ksi aur k sath pyaar karti ho , tou uss nai kaha ki mai ksi k sath relation nahi rakhna chahati. Par wo sach kahti hai ya jout mujay pata nahi mai kaisay maloom karou. Aur uss ko kaisay yakeen dilavo. Wo meri sath padhti thi. Hamne Facebook pe bat krna suru kiya. After 20days maine use bataya ki mai use chahta hu, pr wo hamse puchhti hai ki aisa kyon hai, kyon chahte ho hame, kuchh dino ke classroom friendship ko itna seriously kyo le rhe ho. Agar ladka har baat ladki ko batata hai ki ye karo aur ye na karo to ye naukar waala hi to seen hua. Is baare me soch ke aapko jo theek lagta hai vo karo. Dekho dear jaruri nhi hume life me har man-pasand cheez mil jaaye isliye kabhi kabhi hume compromise bhi karna padta hai so jyada tension na lo. So bahut saare dusre ladko ki tarah aap bhi apni zindgi kisi aisi ladki ki liye barbad na karna jisse na kuch lena na dena. Har pyar krne waale ko pyar nahi milta Anisha, Main bhi aapki jaisi hi ek ladki hu and I know this exact feeling. But we have to move forward.. Mera ek dost h. Uski sister se meri kafi mahino se normal freinds ki tarah chatting aur meetings ho rahi thi… kuchh dino se wo mujhse puchh atart kar diya ki meri koi gf h ki nahin ya kabhi puchhti ki kabhi mujhe sachha pyar hua h.. Heartbeat bhi tez hozati h.. I dont know whats happening.. Meri gf 3sistr hain uski bdi sistr ka crcter kafi bura hai.. So pls main apse yhi puchna chahta Hu Ki main use kis tarah se handle kru jo wo b apni sistra Ki tarah na ho.. So pls main apse yhi puchna chahta Hu Ki main use kis tarah se handle kru jo wo b apni sistra Ki tarah na ho.. Maaam aap muje is baat la ansr do ki wouje baar baar puchti rehti hai ki aap mujssse pyaar kyun krte ho…but muje khid bhi samj nahi aata mai kya answer doun usse…kyunki mai khud nahi jaanta mai isse itna kyun chahata hun.. Or by any other reason?? Usse koi choti si baat karna smile ke saath and thanks bol kar baat khatam karna, next day fir koi baat karna halki fulki and last me uski halki si tareef kar dena, next day no. Socho aapke padosh me ek ladki rehti hai jisme aapko koi interest nhi hai par vo aapko propose kar de, to aap kya karoge? Simple si baat hai, Aap use Naa hi karoge, fir vo chahe kuch bhi kahe ya kare aap use pasand nhi karte to nhi karte, aur agar usne fir bhi aapka peecha nhi choda to aap khoge yaar ye to peeche hi pad gyi. So bahut saare dusre ladkiyon ki tarah aap bhi apni zindgi kisi aisi ladke ke liye barbad na karna jisse na kuch lena na dena. Agar use apni banana chahte ho to jaldi se jaldi usse baat karna shuru karo. Baaki aap khud samajhdar ho.. Us ladki ke ghar waale apni jagah bilkul shi hai ye mera manna hai aur vo ladki apne Mammi Papa ki baat man rhi hai ye bhut khushi ki baat hai. Aap agar us ladki ko apni banana chahte ho to kuch aisa bano ki uske ghar waale apni ladki aapko dene se mana na kar sake, successful bano, ye majnu bane rahne se koi apni ladki nhi dena chahega har insaan chahta hai uske bache khush rahe aur khushi usko vhi de sakta hai jo safal ho. Aashiqui ka bukhar kuch dino me hi thanda pad jaata hai saari zindgi aise hi nhi nikali jaa sakti. Use aapme interest hai but agar aapne kuch kiya nhi aur bas yun hi dekhte rhe to vo samajh jayegi aapse kuch hone waala hai nhi, aur fir aap jo marji kar lo vo nhi milegi aapko. So Go talk to her… Dosti karo, yha vhan ki baate karo, apne no. Fir jab baat ho rhi ho to koi acha sa mauka dekh kar apne dil ki baat keh do. Thodi baat cheet karo, friends bano… hansi majak karo, funny messages share karo, kabhi kabhi uski tareef karo aur mauka milne par thoda bahut flirt karo… uske baad agar sab theek lagta hai to fir propose karne ki socho.. Us le ke ghar waale apni jagah bilkul sahi hai ye mera manna hai aur vo ladke apne Mammi Papa ki baat man rha hai ye bhut khushi ki baat hai. Aap agar us ladke ko apna banana chahti ho to kuch aisa karo jisse ki uske ghar waale or aapke ghar wale aap dono ka pyaar accept karle. Or aapke ghar wale bhi us ladke ko tabhi accept karenge agar wo successful hoga, ye laila majnu bane rahne se koi fayeda nahi hai. Balki agar aap use sach me pyaar karti ho to use ek kamiyab insaan mbanne me support karo or jo bhi faisla wo leta hai usme uska sath do or use btao bhi ki aap uski khushi ke liye ye compromise karne ke liye bhi tyaar ho. Kyunki ye jo Aashiqui ka bukhar hota hai ye kuch dino me hi thanda pad jaata hai or baki ki saari zindgi aise hi nhi nikali jaa sakti. Socho aapke padosh me ek ladki rehti hai jisme aapko koi interest nhi hai par vo aapko propose kar de, to aap kya karoge? Simple si baat hai, Aap use Naa hi karoge, fir vo chahe kuch bhi kahe ya kare aap use pasand nhi karte to nhi karte, aur agar usne fir bhi aapka peecha nhi choda to aap khoge yaar ye to peeche hi pad gyi. Agar apna saara dhyaan kuch bada karne aur kuch banne me lagao.. Apni life ka ek bada aim set karo and use achieve karne ke liye 24 ghante bhi mehnat karni pade to karo. Apna sara dhyaan aur dimag us goal par tika do, bada socho, bada karo, safal bano aur sabse pahle apne Papa aur mammi ke liye socho, baki sab chor do, ye socho ki kaise Papa ka naam ucha karunga, kaise papa ko apni li huyi gaadi ka steering pakdaunga, kaise mammi ko sabse mehangi saree gift dunga…. Zindgi shi tarike se jiyo aur sahi raste par mere dost, baaki sab to 2-4 din ka khel ka, sab badal jayega. Kisi ki khushi k liye apko bdal deta hai, kisi k chahere pr ek smile k liye jo apko kuch bhi chorna Sikha deta hai etc. Ye ehsaas hai, jo kisi k sath hone pr hame hansa deta hai, aur uske door Jane pr hame rula deta hai, use Hi to hm pyaar kahate hain. Jo kisi k khush hone pr apko khush kr deta hai, aur kisi k dukhi hone pr apko sad. Aur readers mera manna hai jisse aap pyaar krte ho, jitna ho sake itna waqt uske sath bitao, bcoz koi nahi janta ki kl kya hoga. And I proud my self ki haan meri defination k according Maine kisi se bhaut pyaar kia hai. Aur bhale wo mere sath hai ya nahin aaj pr mere andar wo ehsaas hamesha rahega. And I wish ki tum hamesha khush raho chahe kahin bhi raho. And last thing ki hamesha sabko achchi yaadein sath rakhi buri yadein to SB dete hain, pr hme filter krke sbki achchi yaad sath rakhi chahiye bhale aj wo hamare sath ho ya na Ho tb bhi. Ghar waale nhi maan rhe hai to mar jayenge ya ghar se bhaag jayenge, kabhi ye socha hai ki apne 4 din ke pyar ke liye itna bada kadam utha loge to saalon tak Maa Baap ne jo apna khoon paseena ek karke tumhe pala hai unka kya hoga, kabhi unke baare me socha hai? Are Bevkoof insaan ye jo zindgi hai vo tumse pahle tumhare maa baap ki hai, unki khushi ki pahle socho fir apne baare me kuch sochna, apne khandan ka naam mitti me milane se pahle ye jarur socho ki jinki ijjat ek baar chali jaati hai fir vapas nhi aati, Life me compromise sabko karne padte hai, jaan dena hi samasya ka hal hota to aaj duniya me koi zinda na hota. Problem hai to use solve karo, Ghar waalon ke liye log apni zindgi kurban karne ko nhi sochte aur tum pyar ke chakkar me ghar waalon se hi sabse badi daulat lootne ki baat karte ho. Mere saath jo hua hai vo tumhare case se dunga bura hai fir bhi main khush hu and apni life jee rhi hu, isliye fir kabhi ye baat mat socho. Samajhdari se kaam lo. Vo to aaaj pyar pyar karta hai kal ko bhul jayega par agar tumne kuch galat kar liya to zindgi bhar ke liye kalank lag jayega. So usse dur rho aur vo chahe kitna bhi pressure dale uski baaton me mat aana. Use aapme interest hai but agar aapne kuch kiya nhi aur bas yun hi dekhte rhe to vo samajh jayegi aapse kuch hone waala hai nhi, aur fir aap jo marji kar lo vo nhi milegi aapko. So Go talk to her… Dosti karo, yha vhan ki baate karo, apne no. Fir jab baat ho rhi ho to koi acha sa mauka dekh kar apne dil ki baat keh do.
