However, did you know that you can make someone addicted to you, even if you are not in a romantic relationship with them? There are many ways you can get someone to become addicted to you without even knowing it. For some people, these things might be what initially draws them in, while for others it might take time for their addiction to start.
Below are three things that make someone addicted to you
1. Make them feel accepted for who they are; One of the most important things that makes someone addicted to you is your acceptance and understanding of them.
When they feel like who they are is very good for you, they start falling in love with you without even realizing it. This especially applies when you respect their difference and allow them to express themselves freely around you. Accepting someone for who they are also mean, you don't judge them regardless of their past and mistakes they may have made. This may be very difficult for some people to do, but it is one of the things you can offer someone if you want them to be addicted to you.
2. Give them your attention; When someone feels like they are the only person that matters to you, it can be very intoxicating for them.
Giving someone your attention is one of the best ways to make them feel wanted. Be sure to listen to them attentively when they are talking and if you are with them physically avoid checking your phones or doing anything else that might distract you from them. Make sure that your conversations are meaningful and interesting so that they will want to continue talking for hours on end. The more attention you give them, the more addicted they will become to you. Never chase them or force your attention on them. Only give them your full attention when you feel like they need it
3. Make them feel safe and secure; When someone feels like their life is always in danger or that they need to look out for themselves, it can be very hard for them to be addicted to you.
To make them feel safe and secure in their relationship with you, it is important to that note that you should always protect them when needed. This doesn't mean that you have to become a superhero all the time but it does mean that if someone is hurting themselves or is in a bad situation you will be there for them. To make some feel safe and secure when they are with you is one of the most important things you can do to make them addicted to you. Feeling safe and secure is one of the basic human needs and if you can fulfill it without really putting in much effort, it can be very easy for someone to become addicted to you.
