My dear poster, I assure you that your being single isn't because you are a single mother. Please remove the thought. My sister is 40 and has only dated thrice. She has just not met the right person and she's not bothered. Neither should you. At least you're gainfully employed. I am the same age with you, unemployed but married. Things are as tough as nails. My dear, it will end well with you. enjoy your single status and take good care of your daughter, she will bring you lots of joy. I learnt something today, and I'll share it here, "don't try to change your emotions, change your thinking". Best of luck
