Leave another woman's man alone!! The only reason you're considering him now is because your own relationship after him didn't work out. So you want to ruin another woman's happiness just because you yourself are not happy? How are you even sure he's not leading you on now to put you through exactly what you put him through before when you led him on knowing you couldn't marry him because of your mother etc? Or you think someone from Bauchi will cancel the wedding with a girl from his place that all his people have been preparing for only to bring an Igbo girl as the one he now wants to marry? Just couple of months to the planned wedding? You think they'll accept you? They've either never heard of you before and so would find the idea of you ridiculous, they would not accept you over the "wife they've been looking forward to marry in a few months; or they've heard of you and also of how you led their son on but then rejected him because your people won't accept him. Either way, you would be bad news to them. Don't kid yourself and look for your own man! ..... a word is enough o!
