A sexy striptease is a great surprise for your partner, or an exciting way to reveal your body to someone for the first time. While sexy clothing and mood lighting are helpful, the key is to stay confident and do what you enjoy. Acting a little silly at the beginning is fine if it makes you comfortable, but stay focused and your audience will get more and more excited as the show goes on. Steps Prepare in advance optional. You can use these tips any time you're taking off clothes, no matter what you're wearing and how far you intend to go. But if you want to give your sexual partner a special striptease, choose your clothing and location in advance. Wear lacy or semi-transparent undergarments, stockings with garters, and a couple layers of sexy, easy-to-remove clothing over this. Consider placing one chair for your partner to sit in, and one for yourself to use during the performance. Walk around playfully for a couple minutes. Tell your partner to stay seated on a chair, and walk around the chair showing off your body from the front, back, and sides. Tug at the straps on your dress or bra, or the buttons on your shirt, as though you are about to take them off any second. Seductively strip off a jumper or T-shirt. Either stand with your legs together in a feminine stance with one ball on the foot knee pointing in, or go for a stronger stance with your legs sexily spread apart with your weight slightly to one side. Cross your arms across your chest and suck your stomach in as you lift your hands up over your head. Tease with a button-up shirt. Button-up shirts are perfect for stripping, since you can turn each button into its own mini-performance. Try leaving a couple buttons at the top and bottom undone in advance to make the outfit sexier. Remove the buttons slowly, one by one, as you continue to move around and pose. Once all the buttons are undone, slip the shirt down low over your shoulders, turn your back to your partner, and let the shirt fall to the floor. Practice this in advance if you're going to try it. Learn how to make jean removal sexy. You might want to practice this one in advance, since tight jeans tend to be less sexy when you're falling over with your legs trapped. Try kneeling, then pushing your jeans down to your knees while you stick your butt out at your partner. Sit back on your butt to pull the jeans off the rest of the way. Play with your stockings. You might want to leave your stockings on, especially with a sexy garter belt. On the other hand, a simple pair of nylon stockings can be a great prop. Put your leg up on a chair and roll them off slowly, then snapping it away slingshot style, or pretend to tie your wrists together. These are great visuals and good methods for adding a bit of cheeky humour to the mood. This gives you more freedom of movement during your striptease. Take off your panties. If you have an opportunity to prepare in advance, pick a sexy pair or lacy panties or a thong, but don't pick something so tight that it leaves marks. Try slipping them off while standing with your legs straight, or lay on your back and pull them up to your feet, where you can flick them off. If you enjoy more serious seduction, select a dimly lit room, or use candles and lamps instead of overhead lighting. If you want something more fun and lighthearted, keep things more brightly lit and put on some music with a beat. You can strip from an ordinary outfit, but if you want something more unique, try finding props or costumes that fit a masculine theme, such as cowboy or policeman. Dance only if you're comfortable. If you know how to dance sexily, you can show your sexual partner some moves between items of clothing, or even while you're removing one. If you aren't a dance floor god, however, stick with the occasional hip sway, and turn occasionally to give your partner a view from a different angle. Unbutton button-up shirts, but leave them on until later. If you're wearing a button up shirt, unbutton it from top to bottom while keeping eye contact with your partner. Let your partner take off your boxer briefs. At this point, invite your partner to get the next stage started by removing your boxer briefs, along with your button up shirt if that's still half-on. You may have to remove tighter underpants yourself. Ask permission if you're with a new sexual partner. If you've not yet had sex with the other person, don't make any assumptions. Even if she is interested in having sex tonight, she'll be more comfortable and likely to do so if she can set the pace her clothes are removed. Remove your partner's clothing slowly. Nothing kills the mood like your partner punching you in the face because he yanked your shirt too hard. When you're stripping the clothes from another person, do it slowly and sensuously. Take some time between each item of clothing to kiss your partner's newly exposed skin, or run your hands along his or her body. Pull off men's trousers sneakily. Distract your partner by making out, while you unbutton or unzip his pants and pull them down. Use your foot to pull them the rest of the way. If you're distracting enough, he may not notice what you're doing until the trousers fall at his feet. However, this is pretty normal and generally expected in a situation like this. If you aren't comfortable with being touched by your partner when you're naked, then it's probably not a good idea to be undressing in front of them. You may suggest some non-penetrative sexual activities like cuddling or mutual masturbation. Again, be very careful not to take that acceptance as permission to escalate to your original desire of full-blown, penetrative sexual intercourse. Cross-dressing in the other gender's clothing can be sexy, whether or not it's your preferred style. If you decide to try it, keep in mind that your body shape may alter the effect of some of these moves. If you're going to show off what you don't have, embrace the humour of it and ham it up a little.
