my dad :divorced my mum when I was a year old. he took me to the village
to stay with his old aunty and he never come to check on me, never
sent anything to me, I was later picked by mum, I never saw or heard
from my dad..
I went thru primary school without his help and when I
got to sec school him come dey pay only my school fess(on phone). I
had to beg from friends to feed in school.. I saw him in 2008 when I
and my sister start going to his elder brother place for new year, we
stop going in 2010 cause our cousins treated us like trash.. since then
I never see this man ooo... he don't call me or my sister not a text..
he don't even know my birth date... including the year he gave birth
to me... what a father..
We both don't know where each other is staying.. well, he had a
wife later and they both gave birth to a girl(1998).. I don't call him
too but if I need money I call but he will promise and later send like
2k.. yes!!! my dad sent me 2k for upkeep may be once in 6 months..
my mum: working with the federal govt of Nigeria but she complains like
kilode.. her own case is worse... chaiiii, this woman dey frustrate my
life.. through out my sec school she don't care whetherI needed scandals,
new uniform...wentin concern her when she never buy the asoebi in
town..
This woman will travel out of Lagos for owambe party and leave
nothing at home to eat..she don't get me anything but she dey buy
clothes, shoes, watches and give money to her now husband who stays at
the other end of town.. I started working immediately after sec school
at 17 to provide for my self my needs..i work for 13hours daily Mon to
sat for 8k monthly which was later increase to 10k.. she stopped letting
me use her toothpaste, soap, beverages and some times food cause I dey
work, I come dey buy my own.. I shared my first salary and I gave her
the other half after that I stopped cause the money was too small....
naso this woman vex ooo...
She go dey swear for me.."you think you have money abi... na stone dey your hand ooo no be money, all this clothes you buy go fade and you will walk naked".. she tell me that I will never get married not too talk of having children..
Stella we be strong mfm members ooo.. but she go say she can't pray for me.. her only prayer point is that she must not die. in 2015 I wrote jamb and
passed oooo... her friend was telling her to help me runs my admission
she finally agree to pay 150k which I totally refused..after paying
house hot pass fire ooo... she said she regret paying that the
admission will not work out... lo and behold I no get that admission,
I lost my job too...
Stella can you believe my mum cursed me cos I used her 20naira detergent to
wash my clothes... even bvs will not forgive me if I type the curse
here... she asked me to pack out... I have been trying to call my dad
since then but he is not picking my calls.. am scared cause the last
time she nearly stab my sister and I around 2am cause I mistakenly
broke her lamp when cleaning
My sister was mostly not at home cause of school and now she dey
serves.. she always ask if am not the one offending her... but she saw
things her self after coming to prepare for service and she swore
never to come back home.. she is also a bv and she will read this too..
may be she will add one or two about our parents.