As I have had the privilege to talk with young men and young women throughout the Church, I have often heard that while a great many of you are interested in building better friendships with those of the opposite sex, you often struggle with knowing exactly how to make that happen. It would seem that with all of the social media, we should easily be better connected than ever before. In ways, however, technology may be causing us to have relationships that are less meaningful. Merely tweeting, texting, emailing, and friending cannot genuinely create a well-rounded relationship. Spending real face-to-face time with other people is necessary to build true friendships. It is time for you, our wonderful youth, to bring back the old definition for when young men and young women get together for a social experience. It is time for you, our wonderful youth, to bring back the old definition for when young men and young women get together for a social experience. You may have heard the term; this experience was once referred to as a date. Answers to Frequently Asked Questions Many of you have questions regarding dating and the counsel given in the new For the Strength of Youth pamphlet. Here are some of the questions I have been asked, along with answers from this wonderful guidebook. Are there any special reasons why I should? Dating is relevant for a number of reasons. In cultures where dating is acceptable, it can help you learn and practice social skills, develop friendships, have wholesome fun, and eventually find an eternal companion. When you begin dating, go with one or more additional couples. Avoid going on frequent dates with the same person. Developing serious relationships too early in life can limit the number of other people you meet and can perhaps lead to immorality. What should I do? What should I do? Go only to places where you can maintain your standards and remain close to the Spirit. Those four simple criteria—dates that are safe, positive, inexpensive, and where the Spirit remains close—leave room for many great dates. As I have reflected with my wife on our early dating experiences, those that stand out most were the times when there was little or no cost, when we were with at least one other couple, and we were able to have meaningful conversations and interaction. As President Thomas S. By Church standards, dating is intended to be a chance for social relationships that can establish many friendships. Seek a companion who is worthy to go to the temple to be sealed to you for time and all eternity.
