This leaves a huge number of possibilities open, and I personally have met girls in coffee shops, bookstores, parks, on public transport and in gyms to name but a few. But each potential venue has its own strengths, weaknesses, and inherent problems. If you want to improve your dating life or meet a quality woman to enjoy a serious relationship with it is important that you are aware of these pros and cons and choose the right milieu in which to approach. A couple of weeks back I wrote an article called. While the ability to talk to women effectively is undeniably key, you must bear in mind that you have to actually meet and engage with one in a suitable environment first before starting to chat. In his seminal book on day game, , Roosh analyzes coffee shops, the street, clothing stores, bookstores, public transportation and grocery stores in some detail, advising on the best way to operate in each. I discuss a few of these here, giving my take on what has worked well for me in each. The Coffee Shop These day most of us—and women especially, it seems—are caffeine addicts who think nothing of shelling out the best part of five dollars for a concoction composed of Peruvian beans, froth, and sugar on the way to work every morning. If you are not visiting your local coffee shop at least once a day then you are seriously missing a trick as you will find loads of cute girls there both buying drinks and working as baristas. Roosh in great detail where best to position yourself if you are planning to spend some time in the coffee shop and includes a diagram of an example floor layout, showing you exactly the best place to sit to be in with the best chance of interacting with girls. One tip: it really helps if you are somewhere on the path to the restrooms, as that means you can interact with women on their way to and from these. Another thing that many guys ask about is how best to pull that attractive barista who pours your latte every day. I pulled a very cute Italian barista from a coffee place in Kensington largely through sustained eye contact, which I maintained over about three visits. By my fourth visit she would blush when I came in. Our first date—on a Sunday afternoon—ended up in my bedroom. This is an opening line designed to work in any city in the world, innocuous enough to begin a conversation from which you can start to throw out bait on which she will hopefully hook. The street is a great place to meet women. If you hit any major high street on a weekend you will see thousands of girls going about their business, shopping for clothes and so on. So the opportunities are limitless. Therefore trying to stop them to get a phone number can be a thankless task, and even if you do get a quick number in the daytime, the chances of it flaking are high unless you have managed to create a strong and positive enough impression. The big debate about street day game is whether you should approach directly or indirectly. This is a topic I discussed a few weeks back. Roosh comes down firmly on the side of indirect approaches, arguing that direct makes for a greater likelihood of blowout and that a longer conversation initiated indirectly makes it more likely that she will actually come out to meet you on a date, which is the endgame after all. This is where comes in very useful. Public Transport Ages ago I wrote an for ROK in which I extolled the benefits of approaching girls on the London Underground transport system. But it remains the case that the London Underground is where I have had the most day game success. The downside is that trains and buses tend to be packed, and so you may have to make your approach in the earshot of other commuters. Also you will have limited time to run your game as she will be getting off at some point, and she may be wearing headphones or playing with her smartphone. As with street game, I have had success both with direct and indirect approaches on public transport. I once told a Russian girl that I liked her bag on the underground and ended up sleeping with her in her hotel room several hours later. At the same time, you should aim to go in with a strategy, and it is for developing one that really comes into its own, as it is packed full with tips and advice for the venues discussed here plus a good many more. Two days ago: Her, a medium length blonde, very nice build, about 26 or so, a good 7. Cashier is ringing my stuff up. She has two bottles of wine. Cold open without any preface or introduction. Have a good one! Where to meet girls during the day? Any fucking where YOU choose. NemesisEnforcer You illustrate the importance of thinking on your feet. If you can do this, and speak easily without it sounding canned or forced, it is easy. My trick for this, which is admittedly easier since I am married, is to have zero expectations or investment in the outcome. And as we all know, that kind of confidence just radiates like an aura that women seem to be able to instinctively perceive. Bluecollarredpiller Couple years ago at the grocery store, solid 8 I had made eye contact with earlier is getting a carton of eggs as I stroll past her with my cart. She opens the carton to make sure none are cracked, then drops them on the floor, egg yoke everywhere. Schadenfreude I mean, she just broke a carton of eggs. You have that made somewhere? Have a good one! Threesomes, interracial, having more than 6 sexual partners, having a one night stand, getting a phone number from a stranger, all breaks their Matrix coding. Michael Henry you are right. If you like a girl and the only way you can approach her is by going direct then go ahead and do it. Judging from your claim that your ex gf approached you, I can assume that you are part of the 20% of males in sexual market value. Trial and error is just part of being a guy. Mostly I play it by ear oscillating between direct and indirect game. I have had one night stands within minutes from meeting women for the first time on trains at 1am. Foreign women or local, it really makes no difference. Even met a woman who took my number and ensured we got a few dates from the meet up. Part of the fun of day game is it can be done anywhere, any time, any how. There is only one rule you need to apply, enjoy yourself. This is why I shoot direct. I rather a woman know I want to slay her and that my options are there than do too much small talk. Day game involves, as NemisisEnforcer mentions, being able to think on your feet conversationally. How do you do this? Go to a bar during the evening and night. Not a club, not a boom boom boom music place, not a pick up joint. Just a bar where normal people hang out, should be your goal. Think the village watering hole. Take a seat, order a drink, and pay attention. He will almost always be a Natural, and his conversational skills will be amazing. Watch how he opens, which is almost always with slow laid back humor. Observe how he interacts, his body language and also take note of when he walks away OR steps over the line and bombs. Just get the cadence and pattern of his speech in your head, and how he flows easily from one topic to the next while naturally pulling others along. Then, study this guy. He was married, came to Columbus Ohio and the women were lining up I saw the show for him. I saw the girls surrounding him, not one of them was under an 8. Smooth as silk and charming as hell. Dude is ugly as fuck, but the way he talks and the charm he has overtakes that without problem. When you can get to this level of conversational skill in front of anybody, women are your oyster. Spending a few weekends drinking scotch and watching Ron White marathons is almost too easy. Hibernicus exule sometimes im extremely successful with women other times i blow out big time. So far nothing more specific than i click with certain types. I do not mind i understand rejection is part of the game. A lot of bullshitters. Not all of course. Also I clearly said not everyone was lying so speak for yourself. Why would it have any impact on my game or actions?? I no where insinuated that. I do not like liars nor braggarts and i feel everyone is too accepting of each others tales on here especially considering almost no one has a real name or face picture. You can believe whatever you want from whoever you want. I just felt it needed to be said. Thus, what would be the point of such statement in the first place? In theory, you or anyone else on this site may provide an exponential amount of lies, however, I have the choice not to affect me in any way, shape or fashion. Nevertheless, some of us can appreciate your public service announcement on the topic. Chris Brony Me and my buddy Bronson, long ago realised Gay Bars and Clubs always have hot girls. But how do you get them. If you go in as straight men their is no hope. So we decided to pretend to be Gay and dressed the part. Daisy Duke Shorts and T-Shirts cut short above the waste or tied in a bow. Hair with a touch of Spray Color and a pose and walk that went with it. The plan was to get talking to the hot girls, be their gay friend and then set the challenge for them to convert us to being straight. So we went to this Gay Bar in the City and start to drink at the bar. Well time passes by and no girls are in early. So we keep on drinking. A gang of butch truckers started to talk with us and buy us drinks. We end up drunk as skunks and passed out in the bar. We end up being pushed out in a taxi cab and back home we go. Not successful, so we determine next time we would lay off the alcohol and get there later. So the next weekend we head back. But this time the bar is crowded and everyone whistles and cheers as we come in. A few guys also offer us drinks and shots. Well sometimes they have picture shows in the back room. But obviously these movies are for Gay Men and Adult. They beckon us to come and see the movie that night. So to fit in, we think we better had go and see it — at least for a few minutes or so. As we used the curtain aside, and the screen came into view we were both shocked. On screen was me and Bronson in 69 position surrounded by the truckers who were buying us drinks the week before. They obviously led us into it. Lesson: Never try Gay Game to get girls. I can pull off the alpha dominance vibe but that is mainly because I saw a lot of shit, and refuse to take any shit from anyone. What helped with that? Getting blown up a
