The way people say i have lost my feelings in marriage make me wonder sometimes, Love is not suppose to be something you choose to feel and unfeel, even my own blood family i dont feel lik i love them all the time but im not going anywher, because deep down i love them, no matter the kind of fight we have, talk more of a man i didnt grow up with, who has a different upbringing than i do, i tell people that marriages crash alot these days because people no longer tolerate each other, im sure this isnt a character that developed over night, and i didnt see anywhere in the write up that he hit you before, why not work around it, and call him on a lighter mood and explain how u dont like it and really go down on your knees and pray, or you think the next guy will be a saint specially created for you? My dear better remove every distraction you have around you and focus on working on your marriage, the guy is trying to bring you over because he loves you, if he didnt he will just keep sending money and find himself a woman, i beg you dont walk away on something that simple communication would have sorted out.
