Don't feel bad or guilty about being lesbian. Accept yourself as you are. It often helps to be able to talk to someone you can really trust. Be careful about who you trust with information of this kind as other teenagers can sometimes be very spiteful and unsympathetic. At some point, you may be able to tell one or both of your parents - but I have no idea whether that's practical for you at the moment. Yes, of course it's OK. There are lots of gay kids. They are often just realising it, and they don't go around telling people. So it's a bit difficult to make gay friends. First of all, at 14, he may have only justdiscovered his sexuality, and may not related it to being gay,because he is just barely scratching the world of sexuality. Andsecond, even if he knows for certain, then if he wanted you toknow, he would tell you. If i were you, I would not. The best thing to do is drop hints that it is safe to talk to you,and that you support gay rights. No, there are not good dating sites for 13 year olds. Most social networking sites, like Facebook, consider 13 the youngest age to start social networking, and online dating is not a smart place to start social networking. Online dating is not considered safe for 13-year-olds, so nobody has made a site for it. Dating sites in the US may not include minors under the age of 18. Well if you can't really tell, then you should wait for him to open up. Thing is, at 14 he may not know himself! At 14, just about anything can be a turn-on. And a lot of straight boys and men have a feminine side. When you've known each other long enough to build some trust, he may tell you! Now here's a question for you: what if he does turn out to be gay? Are you going to dump on him? Tell your friends to beat him up? Or are you going to be a friend, and enjoy doing things together anyway while you look for a new BF? My man and I see each other almost everyday anyway so we don't go a lot of places, just hang where ever we are, hold hands and talk, and that's enough : shhh! Sometimes they sneak a smooch! And, regardless of this, there has been well-documented scientific evidence pointing to a genetic link to sexual preference based on the reactivity of the vomeronasal organ to gender-specific pheromones in human beings. Therefore, a person can be born homosexual versus heterosexual, and they can have this instinctual gender identity long before they actually reach puberty. There are laws that have been created to keepkids safe. These laws say that no one under the age of 13 cancreate an online account. This includes Facebook and Instagram. Iknow that a lot of kids have them, but it isn't legal. If someonecreated a dating site for twelve year olds, then 9 out of 10 peopleon the sight would be child molesters pretending to be kids so thatthey could find their next victim.