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75Valentin October 7, 2011 at 12:11 pm
-That women’s windows for escalation are very short. A woman can be deeply interested at one moment, but if her hindbrain gets the idea it’s been rejected or blown off or he’s not moving fast enough, the feelings will vanish quickly.
Amen to that, damn if you do damn if you don’t. And of course ultimately it’s our fault we “weren’t men enough”. I am so tired of women putting in zero effort and still reserving judgment on us…
But then again I’m asking for sympathy for men and that’s just ridiculous isn’t it?
76YOHAMI October 7, 2011 at 12:26 pm
Girls, I´ve got a mini poll for you:
When bad stuff happens, when reality strikes and your wishes crumble, when you try and fail, when the shit hits the fan, when you dont get the reward, when the outcome is not what you intended… What do you feel first? what comes more natural?
A) This is SO unfair.
B) If I want a different outcome I have to do something different, or be someone different.
Extra points if you give me some more data:
- Which option produces you a gut rejection?
- Can you experience both options at the same time?
- Do you have any of those options banned / blocked / out of your reach?
- For how long do you need to experience A or B, before one state transforms into the other?
Thanks a lot.
77Wayfinder October 7, 2011 at 12:38 pm
@Hope
Here’s the thing about flakiness and women: we are scared of commitment but also crave it at the same time.
That’s definitely been my experience. I’ve had girls get really nervous when things were going too well and they knew I was serious about them. Had one girl who repeatedly told me things that she felt would scare me off, in an apparently unconscious bid to protect herself.
