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Our friend said to her husband:"How can you even think about taking me to that kind of restaurant on Vatentine's day -- you`re so unromatic". For heavens sake, he`s a man and they are different when it comes to romance, he was probably just thinking about the food or the price and not how romantic the restaurant is. I believe too many women want their husbands to think exactly the way they do and that is just not possible. For a lot of men romance is not as important as it is to women. It took me a while to accept that too. For instance while I love romantic poems, he just simply thinks they`re too mushy and he rather reads a good joke, where a lot of times when he showes them to me online I don`t even think they`re funny.
by Autumn on 2005 Feb 19 - 08:47 | reply to this comment
Disrespect in front of others
I rarely see wives dissing their husbands in front of anyone else, there's only one couple that comes to mind. I have done it only once that I can think of during a very stressful time.
I stand by my statement that it isn't something that happens simply because the wives aren't spanked for it. It shows a problem in the relationship, and you, Autumn, corroborated that.
Of course making a big deal about being brought the wrong type of wine or being taken to an unromantic restaurant shows an underlying problem. Probably the wife feels he does not listen to her wants, and thinks that if she shames him in front of other people he will take her desires more seriously.
It takes two to tango. The wife may be in the wrong for making it a public issue. But chances are good that the husband is unresponsive and not attentive enough.
"Pat"
by a Taken In Hand reader on 2005 Feb 20 - 03:18 | reply to this comment
I'm not sure it is always a r