If you're having a cold feet about marrying him,let it go,maybe he's not d one. I don't think you're having a 2nd thought cos of your mum, u are having a 2nd thought actually cos u don't seem to love him enuf to marry him cos he is in d military.
It amazes me how some ppl seek d opinion of others in marriage, deep down your heart u knw what you want,you knw if he's good for u,what bvs say or think won't change anything. Follow your heart,if you think you love him enuf for marriage, relate with your mum and see what she has to say first. Above all,pray about it.
