When a guy is short, you feel fat. I tried to date taller girls in high school — they turned me down. Sucks that people are like that, but what you gonna do. I struggled for years with insecurity related to resistance. Your boyfriend loves a woman in heels … in theory. You are confusing the prejudice with the fact. If you're tall, with a strong jaw, and you've spent the past few years practicing brooding, you do exceedingly well during this time. A stacked or will still give your legs a bit of length, but won't boost you up that much higher. Height is quite often the first thing you notice about a person, so it plays a big role in the dynamics of ~attraction~ Yes, focusing on what's inside is more important — but that's easier said than done. I glad feeling strange about dating short women because even the short girls had always been taller than me.
Even though I don't wear heels often but when I do, they are at least 4 inches tall , I like to be the smaller one in the relationship. If you have a big butt and are curvy then you can pretty much pick and choose among guys so thats fine. What pisses me off is when skinny flat girls demand guys to be 6ft+ tall. I am 5'9, and if a girl gets to say to me she won't feel protected with me because I am not tall enough than I get to say that her surfboard body makes her look like a little boy and not a real woman. I do have small boobs and a small butt. I am entitled to my preferences regardless of what you think. I do not date short guys. I do not date short guys. I am 5ft 7 so you need to be at least 6ft to get a date with me. I do not date short guys because I don't want to be looking down on my boyfriend when I am in heels. If you don't like it. Yes you are entitled to your preferences thats fine. Most guys inclduing myself are attracted to girls with big round butts and I dont date skinny girls with small boobs and butt because they basically have the body of a little boy, so I definitely have preferences too. I am 5'9 though without shoes, so obviously not that tall, but really muscular so I make up for it. And there are plenty of girls in the 5'4 range to date as well. If you got big boobs and butt you can pretty much pick and choose among guys since most guys by nature prefer those features, you're good. It just pisses me off when I see some skinny flat girls who demand guys to be 6ft+, its like , if I am not a real man at 5'9 than you sure as hell are not a real woman looking like a surfboard. Asker, it doesn't matter. We all have preferences and they're all different. Some girls prefer a tall guy, some don't care either way. Just know how to talk to women and you'll be fine no matter your height even weight sometimes! And 6ft is a little excessive I think. Because most guys aren't that tall yet most guys can still date and most guys have nothing said about their height. I think 6ft thing is just a thing people say. How tall are you? Are you over 5'5? Are you for real? I thought you were actually genuinely short. You're not at all anywhere near the heights where it could be an issue unless you're looking to date girls over 5'11 or something. Just be thankful and don't complain. Like I said, my friends and I would laugh at you. Only young girls who like old men are dumb, or messed up. Or it's all old women like you otherwise. Unlike the girls you know, my friends and I have options, so wouldn't be dating some old man soon to be having a beer belly, receding hairline and nasal hair. Old men like you have nothing to offer... Unless you're rich and she's a hoe. OK I know loads of girls around that height, and honestly we've only spoken about this a few times because of something we saw on TV so shows you how trivial height really is, because we talk about other stuff on guys And every single one says they don't care, they say short guys always approach them too but it isn't a thing unless he's ridiculously shorter than her. At that height, they're taller than other girls, in school were probably taller than a lot of boys, and generally are just used to the height compared to guys. Majority won't care about an inch, especially at that height where they're more used to it. If a short dude likes curvy women that's fine. If non curvy women like tall guys that's fine. If a fat woman likes fit dudes that's fine. If a fat dude likes fat women that's fine. Everyone has a right to their personal preferences. Of course hypocrisy becomes apparent at some point like if a fat person would only date in shape people but that's uncommon and even then they can't control what they find attractive. Just as a person can't control certain physical traits a person can't control what they like. RachelBrigs Personal preference is one thing. Demanding and requiring is unreasonable. There are girls that require, guys to be 6ft+ tall because they deem them as real men who make them feel protected. And my point is that, if you see those guys as real men who can protect and not me at 5'9 then you better be a real woman yourself, with boobs and butt. I totally get what asker is saying, like a 2 can't demand a 10 or they'll be single forever type thing... Like you like girls with ass and tits, but if you met a semi curvy girl with a smaller but decent and nicely shaped ass and a C cup and had a great personality, you still wouldn't say no. It's the same with all preferences. We like what we like and can't help it, but that doesn't automatically rule everybody else out. No one should DEMAND crazy stuff from partners. But just liking tall guys or curvy girls is fine. I mean I've got B cups and a booty for my size, I'm not crazy curvy but I find tall guys attractive. I also find average height guys attractive and I'm not opposed to guys who are short.
