Maybe it is just a guy thing but sometimes we take it for granted that because we like a girl romantically that she feels the same way. Even if we have been dating the same girl for a couple of weeks we always jump to the conclusion that she is now your girlfriend, even if neither of you have discussed your official status. Girls in one respect are just the same as guys, they too like to go out sometimes with guys just for fun, with no romantic connotations whatsoever; You know the one, a casual relationship with no strings attatched. Of course if you have both been dating for a couple of weeks then the chances are that you are both on a similar wavelength and are developing feelings for each another. Maybe now could be the time to ask her if she would like to make it official and become your girlfriend. Have you ever noticed that if you are seen talking to a girl for more than ten seconds your friends and especially your parents assume that you like her and that she is your girlfriend? It's embarrassing isn't it? Parents are really annoying and if you go out with a girl for a second time Mum and dad begin planning your engagement party; Go out for a third date and the wedding bells begin ringing in your parents ears as they arrange the seating for the reception. Asking a girl that you have been dating for a while to be your girlfriend may seem like a pointless waste of time and energy but there is a good reason that you should. Commitment is a big thing for a girl, she likes to know where she stands with you, she likes to know that you are serious about her and of course she likes to know that you feel the same way about her as she does about you. A simple question, Will you be my Girlfriend? So you and this beautiful girl have been dating for a couple of weeks and you realise that you are developing some feelings for her, the odds are in your favor that she is developing the same feelings for you too. Even if you think that that she considers you to be her boyfriend, It is only right that you ask her about becoming your girlfriend even if it is a formality, that way you both know exactly where you both stand in your relationship and to make it official. Once you have made your decision to ask her to be your girlfriend take action don't wait for the right time, you can't afford to wait too long because if you miss your chance you could lose her to someone else. Make the right time; try not to think of what you are going to say because no matter how many times you rehearse it in your head things never go according to plan. Girls like a small personal token from you not something that you have run out and bought, your class ring if you have one, the chain that you wear around your neck or even the sweater that you are wearing, anything that you have on your person that you wear or use regularly. This token item is to prove your commitment to her. If she says yes, don't jump up screaming yes you beauty! I like a girl, who is same as my age 25, but the problem is now i am final year college student hence I don't have a job, I suspect her parents are searching for a bride, if i get employed i'll surely start chatting with her, yes even for chatting i feel afraid before i become independent, she is having a elder brother unmarried who is presently doing his higher studies, I hope her parents may delay her marriage. He told me today that he was in love and we are not even going out!!!!!!!!!!!!! In our school like many others she is one of the more popular kids, I am near the middle. She plays volleyball and basketball and I play baseball and basketball. What I think hurt my chances is that now she probably thinks of me as a friend. One night me and her sat on our iPads emailing each other all night and part of the next day. What should I do? Every day I want to tell her I like her a lot or even love her, but I dont. The only thing is maybe it isnt a crush. If anyone could help me out I would appriciate it a lot. Please advice, advice i do not want to spoil this one she is HOT! It has been 3 months should I text her or wait I will have to see her in a month what do I say. There is a girl I like who likes me back and whenever we see each other we flirt. It's quite obvious that we both really like each other. As of yesterday, she sits next to me in tech I should really thank my teacher for that. We don't really know each other too well. Here is my question: Should I ask her out right away, or strike up a friendship and get to know her first? And how can I build the courage to talk to her? Another thing that works is if you're good at something show off to her. Don't be a total a-hole just sorta do it nonchalantly like at show and tell or something. Like if you're good at sports be sure to do something cool and pretend to be showing it to your friends but make sure she's around. She is a little taller than me, we're both not that popular but we have a decent number of friends, we're both some of the smartest kids on her team, and I think she has noticed these things just as much as I have. She is taking every chance she gets to stand or sit as close to me as possible, catch my eye, hold my hand, or just have a conversation. I want to ask her out but I have two problems. Problem 1: Her friend, who I've known since kindergarten I met the other girl in the beginning of the year seems to not approve. I'm not sure if the one I like told her, but lately the friend has been trying to get between us. I'm generally shy around girls and my face turns red and stuff. That and I don't know when or where or how to ask her out, and how to avoid her friend while doing it. So I just need to know what to say and when and how to say it, and to at the same time avoid awkwardness from her friend. I can't describe how much i like this girl. But when I get around her I get butterflies and i get shy. So one day we was playing truth or dare. I all ways pick dare and the girl i like sister ask me truth or dare so i pick dare , she told me to ask the girl i like out. I did and she said i will think about it. Four mouths later she goes out with my friend. Now they broke up because he was not treating her right and i sweaped her off her feet. Now me and my friend is now me and him are fighting over her. I turned him down Ik guys.. We don't go to the same school, i love him, and he loves me, and im only 10. Im gonna see his school at middle school because were eating there. What if he asks me again??? I might say yes but what if he says oh. Why didn't you say yes before i ask you? What do I do, she's always with her friends and I don't know what I should do. Btw I'm 13 and all you 10,11,12 yr olds during puberty, your views and choices on girls changes a lot, so the random girl in your class suddenly becomes the only person you can think about. Also when interacting with girls, the big no-no is looking at their chest and lower body parts, it is not only unattractive, it's also disgusting and u can look like a pervert. Just another note, I'm English so I have not got a clue to what 7th grade is. I used to stay and go to school in Vancouver Canada, but that was years ago. If anyone can help me with that, I'd be very happy, thanks!! I feel so terrible because her father caused her cancer with all of his marijuana problems he actually just got sent to prison recent ally. To makes matters worse my girlfriend wants me to pop her cherry and I just would feel terrible if I did since I don't have feelings for her anymore. Please help this is really hard on me and I could really use do solid advice. I am 15 now, I have been in love with this girl since I was 13. She knows that i like her but when I tried to ask her to be my gf a couple of times before, she says she only loves me as a friend. But now she is begining allow me to move beyond the friend zone. A few boys had stead with her during the two years, all of them ended breaking her heart.. She knows that i have stayed faithfull to her. Recently, we changed classes after two years and We are kind of depending on each other as we are the 'left outs' among friends. Yesterday i asked her out and she agreed to go out with me. I don't know if She is trying to accept me or treating me as a best friend. Will she ever accept my love. Then I texted her friend her friend know that I ilke her and she is her best friend that have u told her that I like her , I didn't get the reply and that message was read by her father , I wad too close , but I saiid ma frnd txted u e. Ok, so, ive liked a girl since freshman year, i'm a junior now. She has dated two guys, both have led to them lying, stalking, and breaking her heart. I have NEVER wronged her, and I have always been sweet to her. So, I decided to ask her to the movies, nothing huge. She said she would get back to me, so i was happy! That was 5 days ago... I asked her 4 days ago if she had a good day and she said she was really busy.. Is it always this hard to at least get an no back? I am no fool, I can take a hint, but.. Also, this other girl asked e to formal and i went.. She definatley likes me, but i do not have the same feelings for her. I just don't know what to think or do about this.. SHE SEEN ME MANYTIME IN RESISTANT AND SHE ALWAYS TELL ME I HAVE SEEN U. 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