Is this website really, truly, 100% FREE? There is NO charge for using any and all features of this website. It will NOT expire for at least 1 year. You have instant access to ALL of the features of the website including sending messages, responding, knowing who read your email, etc. I also intentionally am not having this website send you a confirming email message verifying whether your email is legitimate or not. If you want to use a fake email address, be my guest. There are lots of reasons. But let me give you a few of my favorites: 1. This is the ONLY site on the planet that is 100% free and exclusively for those select few that do NOT have or want kids. Quite frankly, the only reason I created this site is to try and find that special someone. I don't know about you people, but I was having an incredibly difficult time finding ANYBODY that did not have or want kids. Long story short, I ended up creating this site myself. I cut the bullshit. As you will quickly discover, this system spends very little time on finding out trivial information like most other dating sites i. I couldn't care less if you like boating more than knitting. Indeed, I am a divorce attorney. I have NEVER ever had anybody walk into my office and declare that they want a divorce because of a difference of hobbies or some other immaterial issue. Instead, the vast majority of time the divorces are sought because of primarily three issues: sex, money and kids. Hence, these 3 particular issues are specifically addressed. This system REQUIRES you to answer sensitive questions involving sex, money and kids for the reasons noted above. UNTIL THEY COMPLETE THEIR PROFILE BY CLICKING ON EDIT PROFILE , I WOULD NOT WASTE YOUR TIME. You can even do a search based on a person's answers to these sensitive questions involving sex, money and kids. This site is a work in progress. It has quickly grown faster and larger than I had ever anticipated. This is thanks to the constant feedback from the users and my lack of a social life. Hence, if YOU have a suggestion for the site, PLEASE do let me know. Assuming I like it, and I can actually figure out a way to incorporate your suggestion, I will likely do so. Why don't you delete those profiles of people who have not logged in for a long time? I do realize some people haven't logged in for a long time. However, I am intentionally leaving their profiles online. The concept is eventually somebody else will log in, see it, and then contact them. Here is the problem: www. I constantly delete bullshit profiles every day. Ironically, however, I get several people every day that create a profile, look around and doesn't see enough profiles, and then deletes their own profile... Instead, people should just leave their profile online assuming they are single... I immediately delete bullshit profiles.. Because I WANT them to create a profile and leave it there.. There really isn't a huge need for people to log in frequently since, admittedly, membership grows very slowly -- ironically because users are deleting their own profiles every single day because they don't see enough people in their area. True story: I had a really cute girl create a profile. She looked around, didn't see enough profiles, and then deleted her profile saying 'nobody in my area. You see my point? If they just left their profiles online, perhaps they would have met. And again, the site is 100% FREE. It actually costs ME money to run the site... Their profile deserves to remain online.. I know you will NOT like me for saying this but if you can't upload a picture of what you look like, then do NOT use. This is a dating site. Furthermore, if you don't feel comfortable uploading a photo then you certainly won't feel comfortable answering the probing questions involving sex, money and kids. And if you don't feel comfortable doing that stuff, then definitely is NOT the site for you. Quite frankly, there are tons of other dating sites available. Use one of those instead. I really hope your site is for real... Do you charge ANYTHING to use this site? Is this REALLY only for CHILDFREE people? I'm not playing games. I simply created it because I CANNOT find any childfree places for singles.. It actually costs me money to run the site.. Some people on here are looking for just sex and their profiles specifically state that unlike most other sites where people can't even be honest about what they are looking for. Other members on here, like myself, are looking for a real life-long monogamous relationship. Hence, neither person is necessarily right or wrong - they just want different things. I constantly delete people who have BS profiles. Likewise, many women on this site specifically state that the guy should always pay for everything including vacations, etc. I don't agree with that either, but does that mean I should delete the female's profile also? Anyway, here is the link for my animation that most people disagree with : Everybody can join. At the moment, most users are from the USA. I suggest you create a profile even if there are very very few people from your country, or your state or your town. Just leave your profile online.. I CONSTANTLY see people create a profile and then delete it because there aren't enough people in their area -- and then -- I see a new user from the same exact area do the same thing a day or two later. They just missed each other. Had the first person left their profile online, they might have met their match! Again, the site is 100% free so why the heck not just create a profile and leave it online? You've got nothing to lose. Quite frankly, I don't really care if people delete their profiles or not... I don't make a penny from this site. I'm simply just trying to help and point out an obvious snafu that I repeatedly see. You should definitely have a photo. If you don't, you will not get deleted.. However, I suggest you simply explain in your profile why you are unable to post a photo and that you are not playing games.. All ages are allowed on www. The site is 100% free. Who knows who will pursue you. You never know unless you try. I 100% understand about your skepticism. But you can relax. Hence, I humbly suggest you simply create a profile and use the site. You have nothing to lose. How do I change my email address or password? Here you can change some other information including search preferences, address and other preferences about your daily routines, habits, hobbies etc. You CANNOT change your username. When someone emails me, where does the email go and how do I respond? When a member sends you a note, it goes straight into your onsite message Inbox. We then send an email to your personal email address to let you know that it's there. To read the note, simply login to the site and go to your Inbox. Your note will go straight into the member's onsite Inbox, and we'll let them know it's there with an email to their personal email address. All communications with other members stay onsite so that you never have to give out any personal information until you feel completely ready. Then when you are, you can exchange phone numbers and even meet in person. How do I edit my profile? Be sure to save your changes at the bottom of the screen when you're done. Try to put your best foot forward with at least one photo and snappy, detailed essays about your interests. The photo is key since most people feel more comfortable writing to members they can see. Try to stay positive in your essays and let the real you shine. I HATE the graphics on www. Thanks for your feedback. Ironically, I previously changed the graphics numerous times. I was receiving LOTS of complaints about how the graphics looked so I changed them. Now I receive lots of complaints that the old graphics were better. I even had the site randomly display different graphic themes to try and make everybody happy but I received complaints about that also since people were getting confused. Since this the site is 100% free, and actually costs me money to run, I unfortunately don't have the financial wherewithal to hire people to make the site how every person wants it.
