TL;DR: Scroll to the bottom for pics. There's no place for unfiltered, brutal honesty like the internet, so here we are. I'm a pretty regular gal. I go to my 9-to-5 from 9-to-5 sometimes to 4:30 , I hang out with my friends afterward, I exercise sometimes, I'm social, I talk to strangers at parties, other times I just kind of play with the family pet. I'm happy go lucky enough, most people seem to like me, so I don't think personality is my problem. Yet here I am, dateless in Seattle. Well, I don't live in Seattle, but whatever. I'm not a bad egg, it's not that I'm anti-social or don't go out, so what is it? After a solid year of actually putting myself out there instead of half-assing it like I usually do, I got nothing. I go home sometimes wondering why nobody likes me. I'm well aware of the first two rules of dating. Don't fucking lie to me, bro. Here's the sad truth--black women have the toughest time in the dating world. It's even worse if you're educated see Something New, like 25% of black women with a master's or higher or married... I think a lot of it is residual racism and absolutely silly see TheTruth's comments below. Not sure what the answer is--maybe be more aggressive in making your interest known? TL;DR - You look good, but society blargh No she's looks completely normal. If has ruined it and photoshopping. Normal women are all trying to dress like they're on a runway, beating thèir face , contouring to the gawd , getting plastic surgery etc. Since plastic surget can be financed or done overseas diet cheap normal everyday women are getting work. I mean normal I work min wage but have implants normal. It's not only for the rich. I do it but I know it's not freaking normal!!! Women łesbing their house ready for a photoshoot everyday!!! That's what I'm saying though. She clearly has low self esteem and OP put her on LSA for further dragging. I know all about that subreddit, it's rare they actually call people ugly, they will say you are average and if you're actually ugly, people won't comment or will give you tips on looking better. They're also partial to women on there too. I don't know why anyone with a brain would ask reddit for help. Truth be told they're a bunch of socially awkward butthurt dudes who can't provide any source of help. They drool over Asian chicks cause that's pretty much all they can land and they're weird as fuck on the political spectrum But I don't feel comfortable giving any sort of critique. First off cause I'm a girl and secondly I don't know what she's like in person. She could be very off putting, standoffish or socially awkward. Also, my rule is if you give someone the power to make you feel beautiful, you're giving them the power to also make you feel ugly in a heartbeat. So while I understand she may genuinely want help, she shouldn't base her confidence off of what others think. Because as soon as they pick her up they'll tear her down. She's in Seattle, probably looking for a white man.. This is why I can't live in cities that barely have minorities. Beyond whites, in Seattle isn't the largest other racial group Asian? Yeah, she might need to move, or join meetup. She's in Seattle, probably looking for a white man.. This is why I can't live in cities that barely have minorities. Beyond whites, in Seattle isn't the largest other racial group Asian? Yeah, she might need to move, or join meetup.
