That is my situation right now. I married a man who has only secondary education, no any other extra skills. He does different odd jobs like driver, okada rider, security etc. The bulk of the home expenses falls on me as I work and earn well. We are seriously managing. Now his frustration and insecurity is rbbuing off on me, he is always nagging and complaining, quarelling almost everyday. He will be threatening to leave the marriage, I told him I don't care. Now he is saying he will show me, he will do a wicked thing to me that I will never forget before he leaves me. This is a man that I foot almost all the wedding bills. All our major expenses like houserent, childbirth, etc, I foot like 80percent or all the bills. He is the one now threatening me. Life. And I was not desperate o, I was 26 when we started planning our marriage, working and doing well. I married him because he was very loving and caring, also he was not violent and doesn't womanise up till now. Now see my life. My people warned me not to marry a man who does not have a tangible means of livelihood but I covered him up and married.
