Your friend is caught up in the two major problems we have in our society.FAMILY and RELIGION.
Her family are so fake and thinks more of what society and gossips will say. They don't even care about her emotions, state of mind, pains and mental torture she is going through. Marrying her abuser is suicidal.
The church that is supposed to be a support pillar is full of hypocrites and sinners playing god. Why ask someone to resign cause she is pregnant without hearing her story. Who are they to judge and even if she did something wrong is the church not meant for sinners like the bible and Jesus said.
Your friend at 30years can't seem to take any decision by herself and it's unfortunate that her life is being run by all the family members including the family pet.
My humble advice is she should just relocate and start a New life with the hope of the man taking responsibility of the child and also saving her family of the embarrassment the so want to hide.
Who in his or her right frame of mind will give his daughter's hand in marriage to her rapist. Wonders shall never end
