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If you have never witnessed an equal marriage that works then you must have led a remarkably sheltered life. I have witnessed plenty.
And if you enjoy 'accepting' your husband's authority then you are submissive, whether you like it or not. You can call it acceptance or submission or what you please, but if you get a kick out of the idea of your husband being in charge, then you are submissive.
And the 'Surrendered Wife' concept is, in my opinion, vile. It is about a woman pretending to be stupid when she isn't, pretending not to have any likes or dislikes when she does, pretending she doesn't notice if her husband takes a wrong turning etc, it is TOTALLY stupid!
by Louise C on 2005 Feb 8 - 10:48 | reply to this comment
We're not all Submissive
I really liked this article, Kessie! It speaks to me personally because my husband of 18 years is definitely dominant, but in a quiet way...well, quiet may not be the word, but I'm certainly not bullied, yelled at, SPANKED or anything else, but he does...I don't know...HANDLE things. More than I like, actually. Like his father did, he handles all the finances because that's the business he's in. He's just better at it than I am. My worry is that he handles it so well I'm going to be on a "Where's Waldo" search if, god forbid, he goes before I do.
All this to say that he is the first man EVER in my life who did not let me get away with a lot of the relationship nonsense that goes on. Oh I tired, and we had alot of fights over the years, about respect mostly. And he's won my respect. He spoils me rotten and I also know where I stand. It really isn't about spanking, as I'm learning.
I, too, am a pretty dominant female...he's just more so...dominant I mean, not female... anyway, I've always had the spanking fantasies but I'm not sure I'd enjoy a real one, and I can't imagine he'd enjoy giving me one. I liked that this post was about dominance in and of it self, and not physical force or punishment because that is not my experience...fantasy, yes! I need to be careful what I wish for! ;)
