There is a cultural song in my language that has to do with marrying an old man because they can care more for a woman than a young man but I daresay Deji that yours has passed the regular old man - young wife care. Read your chronicle to yourself and you would begin to see how far along the path you have fallen as a man and head of your home. This is why I advocate that men be more spiritual than their wives else you leave your home open to snakes and rats. If you believe in God, ask him for help.
