Some of these have worked for me, others have worked for other guys. I have seen, analyzed, and. One big disclaimer to all of this. I have said before, and will say again, that about 80% of your online dating profile success will actually be with your photos, not what you write in your profile. However, 20% is still 20%, and I have indeed worked with very good-looking guys who had crappy results from online dating because their profiles were way off. From there, it does not follow a specific flow, but rather throws a very strong outcome independent vibe at the reader. This profile is very confident, smart but not geeky , funny but not silly , interesting, and uses a lot of in-your-face language. Not quite, but almost. But if you qualify, maybe you can join me. It tends to work best with guys under age 35 who are not ugly though there are certainly exceptions to both of those generalizations. It is epitomized by a post made at our forum a few years ago by Bukowski Merit. On dating sites where you answer questions, all of the questions are answered strictly to screen for the more freaky girls. The Sexual Profile is not my style at all, but I have certainly seen it work for many guys. You just need to be careful…many sites are banning guys for getting too sexual in profiles these days. Powerful Template 3: The Combo Profile This template is almost a combination of the above two profiles. It starts out very emotional, abstract, and strong on feeling. Then after about one or two paragraphs it gently shifts into subtle DHVs about responsibility and success. There is romantic innuendo rather than sexual innuendo, and the tone is a little more friendly than the Outcome Independent Profile. Also for this reason, these profiles are harder to write, and require decent writing ability in order to properly straddle that line. These profiles are exemplified by some of the winning profiles we had in. Powerful Template 4: The Fun Profile In this template, there are no overt DHVs, no sexual innuendo, and no outcome independence. Instead, the entire profile is very funny and unique in a clever way. Fun Profiles are by far the hardest to write. When most guys try to get funny with their profiles, they either come across as too silly and stupid, or too intellectual and geeky. So I would generally avoid this template unless you really understand comedy well. But if you think you can pull it off, often you can knock it out of the park with profiles like this. This is the profile full of interesting and amusing references to Shakespeare, Noam Chomsky, Family Guy, and Battlestar Galactica. The smarter and more educated you are, the more careful you need to be about coming across as too intellectual in your profile. Bad Template 3: The Whiny Beta Profile I tend to see more of these profiles on provider-hunting sites like Match. You women can be so cruel sometimes. Anyway, I love you, so please give me a chance. His interest in internet dating is largely for ONSs and quick flings; not even fbs. His system and yours are totally incompatible though. They have different aims. Everything I teach is either A something I have personally field-tested over a period of many years, or in some cases B personally observed other men use these things effectively. I have had my profiles on all the websites paused for about 6-8 months had enough chics and just too busy with biz and was working on my off-line pickup game and was looking to turn them back on. I would assume it is like this: Provider sites: Match, e-Harm, maybe POF Non-provider sites: OKC, Tinder, Zoosk and maybe POF and most of the FB sites like AFF and 2nd tier websites But maybe I am messing some here? So if it was Match, it may be a funny or confident angle and if it was OKC, POF, Zoosk etc than it have more sexual slant or buzz words in it. Blogs, forums, and a place to communicate with like-minded men.
