Dating can be a tricky business. What should you wear? Where should you meet? How much should you say? How soon after your date should you call? First impressions are always important Your ripped jeans may be lucky, but remember, this will be the first impression your date gets of you. Now all you have to worry about is turning up on time. Plus, as dating can be a daunting experience, help cut through those nerves by arranging to meet up in familiar territory. This will help make you feel more comfortable. Although, maybe avoid your normal Saturday night pub, as bumping into your mates could be a little distracting on your date. Be confident Women value confidence highly when it comes to choosing a guy. She will sense your confidence as you talk passionately about it. Many people may also be shy about their appearance. Try to keep what you have to say short and concise. If this date goes well, there will be lots more opportunities to share your stories in the future. Listening is important, as it shows that you are interested in what she has to say. Keep the conversation fun Try to keep your conversation light-hearted. Women want a guy who can make them laugh and. Yes you do have to be serious sometimes, but in the early stages of dating, have some fun. Your date will not be interested and it can make things feel awkward between you. If your date does bring up the subject, try to keep answers short without appearing suspicious. Reassure her that your past is history and that you want to spend your time getting to know her instead. Turn your phone off completely. Offer to pay Things have shifted and most women will assume that they are paying for their share of the bill. This will make you look like a gentleman. But, if she still wants to pay, suggest she gets the bill on your next date, if she wishes. Yes, in films they always leave it a couple of days to contact each other, but this is 2016. The sooner you tell her what a great time you had, the better. Get feedback from a female friend Dating is not something we learn at school, we simply have to jump in the deep end and see how it goes. Discuss your last date, where you went, what you did and what you talked about. Everyone has different opinions, but it can help to give you some useful feedback on how to be better on your next date. All that is left is to take a deep breath, relax and try to enjoy being yourself.
