See Henn, my husband is driving me crazy. I think I am too much into him and I want to give him space. Most times he calls me abokoku simply 'husband wrapper' Loll.
This is the guy that would not let me rest before we got married. He didn't even give me breathing space. He calls (called) me his gist buddy now, he says 'can't I stay on my own without being close to him'! (you see my life!). Sometimes when he says this, he is on the phone chatting with one girl like that so he wont want me to see his chat (although,this girl matter isn't even the problem, he says it before girl matter but when I am done dealing with him, he will deal with whoever the girl is)
Before marriage, I was a bit outgoing although I can be quiet if I don't connect with someone. I am myself's bestfriend. I love my own company a lot so much even now, when I am enjoying myself or having good time with friends, I can forget I am married. I can't survive long distance relationship because out of sight is out of mind for me.
This is why I always try to close up with him so I won't be too far. Now, he uses it against me.
Bvs, what do I do? I want to give him space while I try to go back to 'myself' and equally make him jealous and long for that 'gistbuddy' Let him go and do whatever he wants, go wherever he wants without needing to even tell me while i do my own thing.
Right now, I don't have friends around me again.. Please advise me on what to do, places to go.
