My then boyfriend (Now husband) used to wake up and break up with me, sleep and break up with me, eat and break up with me. If I say I can't see him today, till tomorrow, he will call me back and tell me not to worry about ever coming again that we should just call it quits. Hian.
One day, after he broke up with me, as usual (I was deeply hurt each time he did this. It wasn't easy), I broke up with him for real. After about 2 weeks, he came back begging and rolling on the floor. I agreed. Today, we're married, we have gone through major challenges that he will always tell me that we should end the marriage, maybe we weren't meant to be together, maybe he married me too early, bla bla. Hmm.
The issue is with his insecurities; His inability to accept that he can't do as much as he'd probably like to and the hurt from loosing his parents earlier in life which led to the feeling that he doesn't have anyone in life to depend on.
Wetin I wan do? I don marry am finish. Life isn't always as we planned.
So, poster, pray about the marriage and make up your mind. Are you willing to do this with him? Because I tell you, there is a 90percent chance that he will break up with you more times if you marry him.
