Some of you really think marriage is a bed of roses .. You don't have feelings for him and so? You think it's all the time you have feelings for your husband? You think it's all the time you will feel those butterflies in your tummy? It doesn't work that way. I have been married for long and I know I don't love my husband everyday of the month but the days I love him, I really do. He can get on my last nerve but has that made me left?? Nope, because I love him and he loves me. We both get on each other's nerve. I'm sure I get the fuck on his nerves every damn time. Because I'm the hot tempered one. I'm the one that says the nasty things when I'm angry. I'm the one that takes rash decisions but has he left me? No he hasn't. He's trying to work around my hot temperedness, not like I'm proud to be that way. Marriage is work and effort. Those people you see celebrating 50yrs didn't have it easy. That's why the saying love is not enough comes to play. Because sometimes, you will not love your man, but the friendship and understanding you both have will see you thru. Some people will ask you to leave and walk away, yet they are the ones taking the trash in their homes and gulping it down with a dry bottle of gin. My friend, if that is his only flaw, work around it. It's possible for him to tell you to walk away in the fit of anger. Especially when you must have told him you will leave a countless times. You didn't include that but I know you threathen him with the ill leave part all the time probably because you feel you are young, In your 20s and beautiful. Lmao. I'm sure one man is some where twisting your mind and you think when you finally leave you would have met the angel prepared for you by God himself. I laugh in my native tongue. Don't be stupid. Be wise. Build your home. Learn the act of understanding, tolerance and communication.
