some girls just have a skull full of rotten potatoes.
This is the man you are talking marriage with; a consciousless philanderer?
And you have been having sex with such a man and talking about his "cheating on you?"
You are cheating yourself; I mean, robbing yourself. And soon you will still go ahead and marry him.
Sure you read that woman that was killed on the day she was to give birth; the one that had had four babies beaten out of her womb?
That is the track you are following because, by the time he enters another hoe and make porn from it in marriage, you might lose it and he will pound you to pulp.
That inadvertent phone tap was divine mercy in your case.