The pain people experience after a breakup can be unbearable. Sometimes, those who experience this pain are not always the ones who are entirely at fault for what happened in the relationship.
You may have done everything to try to fix your relationship, but it looks like the more you try, the more pain you experience. However, you cannot make someone stay in your life if they don't want to.
When you are unable to control a situation, the best you can do is to control yourself.
Some people think that because you love them, you will always hang in there regardless of what they do to you. They won't know the value of what they have until they lose it.
They believe that because you rely on them, you can not survive without them. This is why you have to prove them wrong. They will be surprised to see you stand on your feet all by yourself.
When you stop reaching out to them, that's when they start missing you.
When you start doing those things they thought you couldn't do, that's when they will discover that they have lost gold while trying to gather stones.
Start investing in yourself. Look within yourself and think of what you can do to make your life better.
Start building your talent and potential and put yourself in the market for people to patronize what you have to offer.
Try to invest in your personality and physical appearance to make sure you look more handsome or beautiful than the way your ex left you.
Make them feel that they were the ones who were hindering your growth, and since they left, you've started making progress.
Focus on your career and invest in a profitable business where you can earn enough money to do whatever you need to do for yourself.
When your ex sees that you are now making more money, they will want you back in their lives.
In this life, when you push yourself to the top, those who have left you will desire to come back. The top is big enough to accommodate all those who are willing to fight their way to get there.
Try to make friends with people of high caliber and those who are influential in the country. When you earn yourself a big name, your ex will try to look for you by all means.
Always do good to the people you meet. This will earn you a good reputation. When people start talking about you, your ex will find out about your good deeds and try to reconnect with you.
Date someone better than your ex. Someone who is more financially stable, handsome, or beautiful than they are. This can make them want to fight to get you back.
