I really don't understand my bf and I don't know what to think of this situation.
Here's what happened, I've been with my bf for almost 2 years and it's the sweetest relationship I've been into.
Different down moments and trust issues on both sides which we overcame or maybe he hasn't overcome it. I've never cheated on him but he acts so insecure sometimes.
Initially, I thought it was because I told him to chill on us getting married for now as I saw that we're both not financially ready, I mean I always end up broke before month end and I don't even like asking him for too much except for tfare to work when I'm extremely broke and this is because I know he doesn't have so much either.
We came to an understanding to have another source of income so we can have a solid financial back up before getting married ( or maybe I thought he understood). The thing now is that, to the best of my knowledge, things have been perfect between us, I'm as open as possible but he can just wake up one morning and start talking about the relationship not going well or start complaining of something about me that I don't know. I ask him to go straight to the point and tell me exactly where I'm missing it but he ends up not saying anything clear.
Things have been going well for sometime now even up to this morning but he suddenly called me and said the relationship is not going well and he doesn't think we should continue. I asked what's the problem but he couldn't say anything clear. He has done this a lot of times and I barely even understand what he wants as he's not communicating it in clear terms.
I really need your suggestions on how to go about figuring things out.
