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Rhen PERMALINK
April 3, 2011 3:36 pm
JZ may well be right about flaws in the “study”//a lot of social science research really is junk. But there’s evidence of other kinds about these fantasies, for instance in the sales of certain kinds of romance novels and movies. And not just romance novels. Quite a few women have commented about how hot they find the rape scene in The Fountainhead, for instance.
Bhetti’s point that a sexually repressed upbringing would lead to these kinds of fantasies makes sense-fantasizing about sex in which she is a willing participant would make a girl raised this way feel even more guilty than the forced-participation kind would. But raising girls to feel guilty about sex has become a LOT less common in the US & Europe, and the fantasies SEEM to be continuing among a high %, it would be interesting to know whether or not they’ve become less common over decades, but probably be impossible. It would also be interesting to know how common these fantasies are in countries known for their sexual liberalism, such as Sweden.
Bhetti PERMALINK*
April 3, 2011 4:25 pm
jz: I read through the whole paper and I’m aware of its flaws including the leading question bias it introduced. I feel that them reporting on frequency helps ameliorate that. I say myself above to read through the whole study, which quotes estimates from other papers. I didn’t say it was as high as it said (though knowing women, I don’t discount it), and when I originally quoted the study at someone having access only to the abstract, I told them to note the sample was undergrads for one thing.
However, there’re other studies and there’s experiences with real girls too. If a paper tells you the sky is blue, you don’t question it too much, but might argue just how blue it really is. It has a lot of very valid points to make, especially in the continuum it evaluates.
