For over a year, I dealt with a lot of confusing emotions and it was really difficult. For whatever reason, we all like to know if our exes have moved on for good or not. It can be difficult to figure it out, especially if your ex is usually hard to read, but luckily, there are some telltale signs. He Makes Excuses To Call Or Text YouIf your ex isn't over you, he obviously still wants to talk to you - but if he doesn't want you to know he's not over you, he'll try to be sneaky about it. He'll come up with excuses as to why he needs to talk, like asking random questions or trying to get your help with something. If he were totally over you, he would be avoiding calling you. He Started Dating Someone Else Right AwayThe way some guys get over relationships is by entering into a rebound relationship right away. Of course, this isn't always true, but it is a lot of the time. It hurts you and it makes you feel like he's over you, but what could be happening is that he's lonely, misses you and is trying to replace you with someone else. You'll be able to tell if it's rebound if he still doesn't seem happy or tries to talk to you or see you still. Plus, rebounds usually end pretty quickly. Or He Hasn't Dated Anyone Else In A Long TimeOn the other hand, a guy who isn't over you might just not date anyone for a long time. I know a few guys who fall apart after breakups. They have no interest in talking to or seeing other girls. If he's been single for a while, there's a good chance he still hasn't moved on from you. I knew it even more when he sent me a huge bouquet of flowers in the mail on Christmas Eve. Holidays can be a pretty lonely time, especially for people who are still mourning the loss of a relationship, so it could make him feel vulnerable enough to reach out to you. You Somehow Run Into Him All The TimeIf you mysteriously run into your ex in your favorite places all the time, it's probably not an accident. If he knows you always go to a particular place, he might start going there, hoping he's going to see you - then he can act like it's such a surprise. Or, if you put it on your Facebook that you're going to a certain place, he might decide to go there too to see you. When He Sees You, He Doesn't Leave Your SidePay attention to how he acts when he runs into you or sees you. If he was over you, he would just say hi, how are you and go on his way. Or he would avoid you completely. If he's not over you, he'll stick around for as long as he can. He'll ask you lots of questions to keep the conversation going, he'll try to touch you, he'll laugh at your jokes and he'll generally seem pretty happy. He Asks Your Friends About YouA huge sign that your ex isn't over you is if he asks people about you, especially your friends or family members. If he were over you, he honestly wouldn't care what you were up to. He definitely wouldn't ask people about you!
