Perhaps there's a co-worker who has caught your eye. Or a fellow student in school with you who makes you weak in the knees every time he comes near. You are interested in him, but how do you know if they like you? It can be embarrassing for you to ask your friends about how you can tell if he's interested. If you're shy, the last thing you want is for your friends to make a fuss. Or, even worse, to approach and ask him directly. Here's a list of the top 50 signs that a guy may be interested for you to look over and see if any seem familiar. This is an attempt for him to be closer to you. He asks questions and is interested in talking to you. This is a way of indirectly telling you 'I like you'. Suddenly he is commenting or liking your Facebook status updates or retweeting the tweets you have made. He asks how you are doing and what you are up to. Does he call you often when he has nothing important to tell you? He most likely doesn't want to disappoint you by saying no. He will defend you and make sure that you are safe and sound. He may tell you there is no need to return it and encourage you to keep it for yourself. He is the first one to say sorry when something unfortunate happens to you. Observe his body language to tell if he likes you. If you see him running his eyes from top to toe, he has an interest in you. He wants to know more about you and your opinions on varying topics etc. All that matters to him is you. He visits you and spends countless number of hours beside you. In the workplace, he may undertake some of your tasks. This includes grabbing you by the hand to help you cross a busy highway. There is no exact science that will tell you if a guy likes you back or not. However, there are many signs guys display when they are interested that can help you predict or at least give clues as to whether he likes you or not. That said, it is hard to determine if a guy likes you as many factors come into play. Also, the behavior that you see in a man may not necessarily mean interest. Sometimes, only one or two signs may not be enough to make a judgment. Lastly, signs of attraction or love shown by one guy may not be the same used by another. You should study the man from as many angles as possible before deciding whether he is into you or not. I have his number, and we text a little, but I feel really nervous about texting him because I don't want to come off as annoying. We talk incessantly when we see each other in person, but when we text it just seems like neither of us knows what to talk about. Is this normal and what should I do next? It is much better to build a relationship in person so be happy that you and your guy talk so much when you see each other. I suggest you just use texting to arrange your next meeting, for example, when and where to meet. Leave all the important news and fun chatting to when you see each other in person. Because teachers can get in huge trouble if they behave inappropriately with a student. Some teachers have even gone to jail because of it. The truth is, my teacher friends are all in happy, loving relationships and have no interest at all in students. You should be concentrating on your schoolwork. Do well and graduate. There is the slightest possibility your teacher might someday consider dating you... I think instead of wasting your youth obsessing about an older man who is out of your reach; you should be looking at guys your age. Aim to find a boyfriend among the students, not your teachers. In theory, I suppose it is possible. See if he misses you enough to chase you. I do struggle a bit with the idea of a guy being in love and not knowing it. Unfortunately, in my experience, it is quite common for one in a couple to be more in love and committed than the other. Those relationships tend to fizzle out sooner or later. One who loves you and definitely knows it. You have a few ways you could reply to find out if you are his crush. Which option you choose will depend on whether or not you are happy to be his crush. If you like him a lot and want him to know it, simply say... One is that he likes you, yes. The other is that maybe he's bored at work and just looking for ways to amuse himself and get out of other tasks. I guess your mission will be to figure out which option is most likely. Strike up a conversation and learn more about him. Ask him how long he's been working there and if he likes it and that kind of thing. That's a good starting point, I think. There's nothing to lose just chatting with the guy if you think he seems nice and you're interested in him. It certainly sounds like he likes you. But does he like you in a romantic way? It is hard to tell from a distance. There are 50 things to look for on my list from this article. The power of suggestion is a remarkable thing. Either way, he sounds like a nice guy to be around! There's a process to follow before you can expect someone to be your boyfriend. You have to know each other well enough to know that you actually like each other. Being a proper boyfriend or girlfriend requires an element of commitment. So I'd expect you'd have been dating for a while before asking him to be your boyfriend. In which case, just ask him. What does that mean? I do think you need to be careful though. Becoming too intimate too quickly can spoil a blossoming relationship. A kiss is nice, but the pressure to keep kissing leads to pressure to do more. Asking you out, trying to be helpful, all those kind of things. Question: I have this guy whom l met just three weeks ago, and l like him. Until today, I thought he liked me too. Actually, we have never talked. He just keeps following me. But since three days ago he is acting differently. Different as in not noticing me, and not even saying anything when we are alone. Do you think he doesn't like me? Gee, that sounds awkward. How can the guy even know if he likes you? What does he know about you? If you want any chance of getting to know someone, the silence needs to be broken. So if you think you like him, just say hi to the guy. Your question raises a few possible answers. I'm guessing you're saying you have a crush on someone but don't know if he's a womanizer. So you're wondering how to tell if any guy is a womanizer. If that's the case, I suggest you could be asking others who know him. Has he had lots of girlfriends? Do his relationships last very long? You could also be asking him the same questions. But maybe your question is slightly different. Perhaps you already know the guy is a womanizer but you still have a crush on him, and you're asking me how will you know if he likes you. In that case, I'd be suggesting it doesn't matter if he likes you or not. The guy is obviously trouble and destined to break your heart. So I don't think you should waste time and effort on him. Find someone else to have a crush on. He might be showing off, or he might have a bet with his friends, and maybe he actually likes you. I think you should talk with the guy and see if he can keep a conversation going. Putting his arm around you to guide you from a restaurant is another excuse for touching someone we like. It sounds a bit quaint and old-fashioned in a kind of sexy way. So if you like him, I think you should cozy up. Isn't it nice to know there are nice guys in the world who make an effort to care about someone in need? He sounds like a good guy who stepped up to help you during your difficulties on the youth trip. But I think you should be grateful for his help without expecting him to continue his kindness now the youth trip is over. Don't confuse kindness with romantic interest. I think the guy was just being kind. Now it is time for you to get yourself together and move on with your life on a daily basis. If that guy doesn't have a role in your daily life, you shouldn't have any expectations. Just be pleased he helped you when you needed it. But don't think that being 'needy' in a general sense is going to attract his attention. That's not what builds a romance. Choosing between your best friend and your boyfriend should not necessarily be about who was in your life first. In many ways, it has to do with who is likely to be in your life longest. Trust is also a factor. If your boyfriend hates your bestie for no apparent reason, you have to wonder why. Find a guy who is not so weird and controlling. A bit early to be making declarations of love. Maybe he likes you. There are ways to tell, but asking me is not one of them. See how many of the signs I listed can be matched with your guy. Just enjoy trying to get to know him better. If that's the best the guy has to offer, I can't see why you'd bother with him. Firstly, he's not a good communicator. Why isn't he using words? Secondly, he sounds kind of creepy. Who does that kind of thing? I think you should wait and see if he can behave like a normal human being before getting excited about spending any time at all with a guy who just gets close to your face and winks at you. Is that a problem for us? It would be a shame not to try being a couple just because you were both too afraid to raise the subject. There are better and clearer ways of showing affection. Bumping a girl with your shoulder and grinning sounds like the kind of thing a young boy might do if he likes a girl. He obviously likes you enough to ask you to dance and play ping pong with him. Talk with the guy and figure out if you get along and how much you have in common. You either accept his invitation, or you turn him down gently. Either way, I think you should thank him for asking you. Otherwise, you might get stuck in the friend zone forever. It could get complicated if you and her brother were to break up, for instance. You need to decide if her brother is worth the risk to your friendship. Question: I slept with a guy and after we slept together he tells me that he has a girlfriend. I met his girlfriend and things were very awkward. At first it seems as if the guy loves me. My friends think that I'm loose for sleeping with this guy... How do I solve this? Does he love me? I sure hope you used protection. At least find out if he has a girlfriend or not. A guy who cheats on his girlfriend is not a guy worth having. Do I think he lov
