this is really tough and I can imagine how you'll wish everything disappears. The truth is, the hear wants what the heart wants. Do not go ahead with any wedding. Go and confess to your mum n dad and beg them to shield you this one time. Get them to speak with the guys parents about your medical conditions and their plan to take you for HIV and Epilepsy cleansing in the village to avoid you having a seizure on the wedding day hence the need to postpone the wedding a bit. They will pretend as if they don't know, you never told your guy. And that the priest is very good. He has the cure for AIDS. They will be the one to advise their son to totally stay away. You will even be begging him to be strong for the love u share.
