Nervous around beautiful women? A friend of mine called me earlier. I can feel her. The chemistry is off the charts. We talk and we totally understand one another. I understand her, she understands me. How do I get her to want to be with me? The second you go into salesman mode when you meet somebody is the second you give any and all power away. A 30-year-old woman has way too much going on in her life, way too many experiences. She probably wants a family. Life is about the moment. It can be something that can just be a week or two or three or a month or four months or a year. Everybody in life is a messenger for you. People are there to teach you things that you can learn from. What do I do? But why deny a connection? Why deny something where you can both grow as people? About About David 1. I never sugar coat anything. Nice is so overrated. Recommended for You: David Wow, As moust of you know, I went through this experience, and had all these same feelings, and questions, when I went out with a 24 year old. And, I can tell you from experience, it was one of the greatest events of my life. I certainly took FULL damn, advantage of it too! It was Full of excitement, adventure, anticipation, learning, SEX, and a sense of pride, having a hottie on my arm, that was off the charts. Inevitably, it had to end lasted a full year , due the the reasons you state, but I still cherish the times we had together as does she, we still remain friends and will NEVER be sorry for having the experience. If you can get it, definately DO IT!! Bro, I know exactly what you are talking about. My first boyfriend was 24 years older than me. I was 20; he was 44, but didn't look or act his age in a good way. I fell hard and fast. He didn't consider himself to be a good looking guy in the traditional sense, but I thought he was adorable, sexy, extremely funny we're talking incredible humor, creativity and talent , kind, sincere, an exceptional lover, had tons of friends and he knew how to treat women. This was a truly special human in so many ways. We knew it wasn't meant to last but he remained a good friend and passed away of cancer at the age of 51. After my late father, I definitely consider him the most important, most special man I've ever known. Not a day goes by that I don't think of him it took me a VERY long time to get over his passing and to accept that he's no longer here on earth, although still with me very much in spirit. Yes, when certain people come into your life, even if briefly, IT IS A GIFT. I am forever grateful that Joe entered my life and was able to share a part of his with mine. Kirk, You miss the whole point of the entire blog!! It is meant to be a great experience between two people who are attracted to each other. And if you don't think, younger women are attracted to good looking, strong, powerful, confident older men, you are living on another planet. And it is NOT just to get at the man's money. Most of my ladies have bought expensive presents, gifts, and done what they can, to show their appreciation, and love for me that cannot be faked. I have had numerous young women, and every one of them had a great time, and never regretted being with me, and I always try to remain friends, and we both treasure our memories, even long after the relationship has run it's course. I still get girls that I consider too young, that would love to go out with me, constantly. I guess when younger women constantly see you with younger mates, they wait their turn to live the experience. I live a very exciting life, full of adventure and experiences, that they want to be a part of. They will never get the chances to travel, ride horse, Harley's, go to all types of events, etc, that I can provide, with a young man, starting out, their age. This is the way it is, has been, and will always be! Sorry to burst your bubble... Hi there, this in response to Cowboy Bob. He is absolutly right! Us women do care for older men. Granted the older we get I'm 39 years old. We don't quite as of age gap, because as we get older, they are even looking older. My husband of 13 years is 8yr. I have recently meet someone that is only 8 years older then me, however I would say he looks 5 year older then his current age 48yrs old , and I look about 34 years old. With that being said, I don't give a heck, because he is so kind, has a rocken fit body, who works out regulary. Treats be like a queen, and we happen to live in the same town. He loves to give me full body messages, and foot massages and I don't even have to ask, he just loves to give me. An dlet me tell you the bedroom seen is absolutly amazing, and hot! He also loves to travel and not sit around... Not to mention he is very smart and owns his own sucessful business! What is also nice about him being older, he doesn't care about why I got divorced, or try to ask about past relationships, where guys my age are so judgemental! Heck I was layed off from my job, and though he cares about me, he hasen't judged me not even for a minute that I have been layed off! And no I do not ask him to pay my bills... Ii am responsible for my own house hold and don't ask for a handout. But yes, mature men know what they want and know how to treat a lady! Am I the only one with a major problem with old men going out, or having sex with significantly younger women? In the gym a while back I met a lady-friend I haven't seen in a while. She still likes pop culture, loves cowboy boots and having comically big hair. She's seeing an old dude. I was disappointed in her for doing it. Why a young woman would go out with anyone who can be their father defeats me. You're not the only one. That the older man has more life experience and should have more wisdom is precisely why they shouldn't be preying on naive, fresh-faced innocents who have their whole adult lives ahead of them. It's a matter of decency, integrity, valor, honor that these men seem to be woefully lacking. To me, that is a predjudice, no different than saying, you don't think orientals should date White men, or Indian's. What harm can come from an arrangement like this? Are you jelous that the younger women prefer a more mature, man, who has much more to offer her, in EVERY way, than a young man, just starting out? When you get to be 40 or 50, I hope I will still be alive , I would like to hear your perception of this then. Bob, you are nuts if you think that the typical 25-year-old woman prefers a man in his 40s or 50s to a man closer to her own age who is maybe in his late 20s. I think that a relationship can work even if the woman is 10 years younger than the man, particularly if the man looks young for his age. However, if the man is much older, it is doomed to fail. Mark, Your argument makes no sense. How do you define significantly from insignificantly? That's like a prejudice person saying a black man can go out with a brunette but not a lighter skinned blond... Where is the cutoff? I stand by my original accusation without hesitation. Manny, I like you! You remind me of my son. Belligerent, impatient, ignorant, and having a delusional mindset. I envy that you have so much to learn and experience. We actually, would have a blast going out. You would learn so much that you are currently naive' about. Unfortunately, if there were two 25 year old hotties, I would of course have choice, and you would be confounded by this oddity. Keep
