I have a sex friend girlfriend, sometimes we play together and some other times we add someone into our plays… Anyways I do not want to advertise myself here…. But I am a healthy man and love sex and casual sex… I would die for nsa sex, and sex parties and it is almost Halloween and this time of the year sex parties are all over…. I have been to parties with peoples from this we met at the where at have been bi men and seen them suck cock. It is something that I am not into and would never ask someone to do for me.. I prefer women or couples. I have friends on here who are bi and attended a gang-bang with them recently. At next morning she looked everything but not a lady… She had hard time to walk, hard time to seat down. She asked for it, and she never say no or no more. There was no any hole on her body, that did not receive cock at that night, in fact one of those hole had two cocks at the same time in at the end of the night. I know these guys and would attend other parties with them as they know if it is a straight party, then they behave straight. What they do at other parties, that is their business. The question is: Would you go to a Halloween sex party if you knew there would be bisexual guys there? I guess no need to ask bi girls, because no any men mind bi girls… but they do mind bi men… For example you can hand candies out for kids at early evening, but that is not for me. Would you like to know more about it? I prefer different kind of fun, like sex, no string attached casual sex… What do you think? I think only one thing is better than sex… more sex, or scary sex at a Halloween sex party. Before we get any deeper into this, if you are a woman, you should not go alone partying at Halloween. Take you man with your, otherwise you might get more than you wish for. I mean people go for sex party, to have sex, but there are always some idiots at Halloween, they think its cool to scare a hell out of you… I ben there, experienced thing like this. Lets change the subject… let me ask you, have you been naughty or nice since the summer is over? Take a look at them! For extra, many of them from your area! But being alone make people depressed, and or some of them will feel lonely. I am in the lonely category, but not because of Halloween, because after Halloween Christmas will come soon and the year is over. I know, it is just October, but believe me, Christmas will be here very soon. X-mass is family holiday, so people visiting their families and spend times with their families. Good for them and easy for them, however my family lives several thousands km a way, so visit them is not that simple at all. Luckily I have few really good friends, and usually we spend X-mass together, but it is only 1 — 2 days, and the Holiday season is longer. At Halloween, as usually I will try to be a party animal. There are always wild, erotic role playing parties at Halloween. The bad thing, usually those parties are on the same day, and I can participate in one or maybe in two… I am a really positive person, and I know from experience, no one want a negative person to be around, but when the party is over, I have to get back to reality, and I realize it, one year is almost gone again… Sad… Eh? If you just stop and think about it you will realize that it is true. There are families where the hate is palpable, and yet they get together for the holidays because that is what families do. If you have nothing to do, no one to visit at Christmas, go and volunteer somewhere, in hospital or shelter or anywhere where they need helping hands. It is much better than being alone.. But before Christmas, comes Halloween. I have a Halloween tip for you…, organize an erotic party with your sex friends. If you do not have sex friend, than organize a party. There are a lot of people here, who would go to your party. I agree… volunteering is an excellent idea. Counselings is also an excellent idea. Search Google for your city or the city near by mental health dept. They probably offer counselings on a sliding fee scale. One note, not all therapists are created equal. Also a party is not bad either, even though, it would not last all Holiday Season long, but the preparation would keep you busy for a while, and list you will have some fun too. It do not have to be a sex party, if you are not into NSA, just make a party… Wishing you brighter tomorrows. I have many sexually open minded people to share the holidays, it starts with Halloween party and by Christmas over, I always get depressed, because x-mass should be family holiday. I am lucky if 1 of my children and their families spend Christmas-eve with me. I have found that volunteering is a great way to stave off the holiday blues. That is the main reason why I am here. At list I can be myself here and I can make it crystal clean what I am looking for. I got a lot of satisfaction from doing that. And they always could use help. The folks in these homes nearly always enjoy talking to a new person. I think overall the best thing you can do is keep busy with something you like to do. I am the master of my feelings and I can choose to make it positive or negative. We all have positive things in our lives. Sometimes we just have to search them out! I only have one life and I want to live it to max. Do you ever notice that people gravitate towards the positive people. Who wants to hang out with negative, sad, and depressed people!? Related: A lot of man — woman couples fantasize about threesomes around Halloween. For some of them its stay fantasy forever, and some others make it happen. We made it and loved it… This page is for you only, if you want to make it happen. The next tips originated from a married swingers couple. It is written for couples who want to consider the shared fun of MFM threesomes and wonder how to get started. The copyright is hold by author. Please read it only, if you would like to share your sex life with other men in a form of MFM threesome in present of your husband. Oerwiise, you just wast your time. For a MFM threeway you need two guys and a woman. You and you husband as one woman one man, you need to find an extra man if you want to make your threesome happen at Halloween, you have to make your move, because you will run out of time… Where at can you find a willing man? At almost any nightclub, but that can make things happen in rush. If you do not want to rush, the easiest and very privet way is the Internet- via. So you found the man; Where will you meet with him? Any place is a good place to meet for no string attached sex! However there are things… For example, if you live in a small town, or if either of you works in a high-profile profession, you may want to go out of town to have that meeting… What others say? We have even met guys at nudist beach… and generated a few good experience this way. The god thing in the nudist beach, you can nt hide anything there. Your assets are on display… However the best place for the first meeting in our opinion is a quiet bar or night club with music and dance floor. If the guy is not repelled by the idea of being one of two guys, who might have opportunity to have sex with a woman, and the other guy the husband, will be present, than hubby will ask more questions from him, just to get better acquainted. Than we go home and sleep on the idea, but we are selective in who we invite to join us. I would say that for one reason or another, at least 75% the guys we have met never end up in our bed. We weed them out. We want guys who will be fun to be with, at ease with their sexuality, straight sorry my man not into bi and gay men , have a high probability of clean health, and are intelligent. Most of all, we want to avoid takers… rip and run artists… guys who have other than giving in mind. After all, I am openly a bit selfish! We are always very discrete and expect discretion from our partners, vanna be partners too. If we agree then we arrange to meet at a motel, hotel, etc. Usually we go out for a dinner and after dinner return to the room and the play starts. In proper etiquette, our etiquette, I play with the extra guy first, than hubby will join in. One more thing: Both hubby and I hate condoms. I love to feel the squirt of cum against the inner walls of my pussy or mouth… and on my breasts. We made this clean for anyone who wants to play with us. It is simple — No condom no sex. I am sure you know, there is no sex 100% safe. Accidents can happen, condoms can break. You have to face it, you might pick up some nasty disease or get pregnant. I do not want to get pregnant, therefore, for condom breaking protection I take birth control… Generally, we set up an MFM threesomes about once in every two months and never repeat more than two times with the same partnner, but if he is a great sex partner than we introduce him to our friends, so he might t have chance to play with them too. Some people say, we are old fashioned with these rules, maybe we are, but they are our rules and it is our sex life and it works for us. Everyone should be very carefully, special the holiday season coming. Halloween, then Christmas, New Years Eve, so if you want to have fun, you most to be prepared. Halloween or not, to spice up your female partner and your own sex life you need to know her erotic fantasies to start with. If you know her fantasies, than easy to make her love making sessions or casual sex more enjoyable. If you want to be a good lover, you have to make sex great sex, but first you need to feel good about yourself. That includes your body and your mind. You have to be confident, you need to know and you have to make her believe in you can do it. Then you need to let your partner feel good about herself. You need to find out what is in her mind. What is her secret erotic fantasy. Than you need to mastered your technique, your sex move. It is not just to make her orgasm, it is the way to, how to make her obtain a big orgasm. If you can do all the above you are a lucky men. No one is born as a natural lover, you have to learn to become one. Does your wife or sex partner want as much sex as you do? Do her right and she will beg for you more and she will introduce you to her friends and they will beg for you more sex too. Sometimes they stay erotic fantasies, and sometimes they turn it into reality. If you really would like to enjoy sex, you should make her erotic fantasy real! But first you have to find out, does she have an erotic fantasy? How can you find it out? Talk about your erotic fantasy and ask for hers. The easiest way to do it to bring up the topic of sexual fantasies. Open communication is very important in any sexual relationship. Tell her that sometimes you imagine her having sex with strangers and this really gets you going. Ask her if she ever imagines things like this. Ask her if it turns her on? You can mention any of the following erotic fantasies? Probably just the fact of talking about it will arouse her. Some women want to be slapped and beat and forced to have sex. Just like you would expect to see if you were watching a woman get raped. They want you to put your hand up their skirts and feel their vulva under their panties. They want you to kiss them hard so their lipstick runs across their face. I think this comes from wanting to be powerless. They want to feel that someone else is in control of them and their fate. Having sex with strangers This might sound odd, but women fantasize about this as well. Having sex with a complete stranger takes away the pressure. The only thing, they are after is reach orgasm, so if it feels good, then there is no reason to judge. Group Sex The more people the better: Group sex can be exciting for a woman. Some women tend to like the idea of a bunch of nude people together having sex with multiply sex partners. That is why they are into swinging. To Be Spanked Are you my daddy? Some women like to be controlled or to control their partner. Sometimes they want to be spanked and told to yell out slogans or phrases. Sometimes they may want to spank you and have you suck on things. Exhibitionism — Having Sex in Public This really turns some women on, for example this user: The idea of someone else watching them in the heat of the moment in public can be a real turn on. Find a place that you can feel secure and bang the night away. She will love it. Some women want to be told how and when to do things. She might like it when you tell her to lick your testicles and suck on your penis, I have known women who really get off on this sort of thing. Try it out, she might like it. Pain — Sex — Pleasures Some women like to be roughed up a bit. They love to mix the pleasure with pain. But if it gets her off, that is all that matters. Lesbianism — Bi Sexuality Having sex with another woman. Women can be better at pleasing another woman. If your lady bi sexual or just love to play with other women, than just do it, it will turn you on too, you will enjoy it too. Lesbianism can be a beautiful thing. Have her invite friends over that will also allow you to participate. I have done this and it is great. After the first time you will be hooked. Hell, I can just sit and watch them go at it and I am in ecstasy. However, just because she plays with an other woman, for example with her best friend, it wont make her bi sexual unicorn, or lesbian, it is just an erotic play. Than comes role play. The number one is: Being a Hooker It is the oldest profession in the world. Some people think it is dirty, some women find it to be a turn on. People like give and receiving rewards for a job well done. If a woman fantasizes about being a hooker, chances are a big part of her fantasy is that the guy gives her a big tip for pleasuring him. This kind of erotic game usually turn the guy on too, because he can ask to do erotic thinks from a hooker, that he might never ask from his spouse. There are many other sexual role playing activity, like photographer and a model. I am a big hobby photographer and this is my favorite :- , but there are others, like uniforms or teacher student, the handy man, etc. Than the very common and very enjoyable threesomes. This is common for both men and women. Two people can pleasure better than one. The most common threesome fantasy is for women the doggy style: A man is doing her from behind, while she perform oral sex on another. Having two partners in bed, doubles the pleasure. Makes the evening more enjoyable. This goes for women as well as it does for men. If she wants you to do this, do it if you are comfortable. If the idea of another man banging your partner is okay with you, do it until your hearts content. Also it can be a big male performance ex-changer, because every guy would like to out perform the other. If someone invited you to participate in a threesome, just go for it. You will have a lot of fun and she might as well have some fun too. After three somes, comes the double penetration. Otherwise no one will enjoy it. Related: A lot of heterosexual men love to watch their female partner while having erotic fun with another woman… Des it mean she is a lesbian? Lets talk about the guys first. To watch women during erotic sexual play can be very entertaining for men, even though some men might find it unacceptable. However women sex plays, unacceptable or not, might turn any healthy man on. Most of the men love to think that they have a chance to play with two bisexual women, and they hope they can make orgasm for both. Two women at the middle of love making… they are very sexy, naughty and watching them in real time is an extremely erotic experience for men. Swingers men love anything that is related to naughty, erotic and sexy women. Women sex plays can be more complicated if one of the woman from the two is a unicorn. Open minded men fantasize about ffm threesome sex plays, with a unicorn woman. His spouse, wife or significant other, plays with unicorn lady than he joins in and makes love with both of them. Two women erotic sex play biologically unnatural and forbidden in most religions however with the same sex marriages this one changed, but there is not any religion happy about this ,. In casual sex dating not a lot of people worries about, religion and what is biologically unnatural or not. Two women having sex is used to be taboo for women, but always happened, just no one knew anything about it, therefore it was taboo for men and this taboo factor explains why men loves unicorn women. Tell men, according to any religion, watching two women having sex, than join in is immoral. Tell to them to watching two women touching each other is against almost any religion. Tell him, if he joins the play in, he will go to the hell after he dies… Do you think this will stop him? Also men designed that way. To spread the life… plus there is a fun factor. There are many more reason why men like to see women while having lesbian — same sex fun. Whatever those reasons are, men will always entertain the idea of having sex with two women. Thy hope they will be the lucky one who might change those ladies sexual preferences. If you are looking for unicorn or bi sexual women check out our adult dating ads.
