I am in my mid 20s, married to a man 10 years older and we are blessed with a 20 month old baby. Few months after our wedding I noticed that my husband is self controlling, jealous and feels he is always right .
He makes sure that all blame will be on me when we argue or have issue, thereby making me feel like a stupid wife. Most times I feel i am being abused emotionally.
Currently I don't have a job. He does provide money monthly for the upkeep of our son and the home. We ain't in a comfortable place financially in life yet but we thank God and believing things work together for Good for us.
Recently he started talking about baby number 2. Personally I don't think I am ready for baby number 2 because of two reasons. First, He does not treat me right. I want to be treated with love and respect just like the way I do to him. Secondly, I am of this ideology that no child should suffer, because he or she did not ask for you to bring them to this world.
Therefore, if you have the capability to currently take care of just one then don't plan to have more until you are ready. I have discussed these with him but he has a different ideology (he has this African mentality of saying God said you should multiple.God will provide what they will eat. Then so shall it be).
