This story is more like mine except I didn't witness the deed. The relationship was for 4 years with its many sweet moments. Three months to our wedding,a babe called my number and said all sorts (summary was guy told her I hooked him with pregnancy which is why he was marrying me).
I was really upset to hear this;was not pregnant and it just got me sick to know he couldn't tell a babe he made his choice and it's not her.
In my case, we discussed the matter he apologized and I asked for time to re think the whole getting together as one.
We later got maŕried but I just couldn't move past that phase. I would have intimate moments to fulfill marital obligation but could not give my all.
Afterwards,my hubby took every minute/opportunity over the years to show he was sorry, to prove he didn't marry me just because he wanted a "so called good girl" , that he was convinced I was right for him.
It took a while but gradually I could move beyond the past and forgive his error. We went through all this without any of our family members knowing. We both healed and got stronger by the years; just celebrated our 10 years together.
...so this right here, to me is a girl grieving because she feels she made a bad decision on marriage. It could still work if she consciously decides to see what brought them together in the first place and obviously the guy must be 100% willing to redeem himself and make things right.
"Unfortunately, forgiveness doesn't come easy for some people" Doesn't make them wicked as many stated here,it's just a mental issue.
