Your mum won't let you marry the bauchi guy so why exactly are you leading him on? Your relationship hit the rocks and you want to spoil his. Do you even think you're a good person as you're there so? Because both of you are friends then his relationship must scatter cause you couldn't keep yours. You're asking for advice expecting us to tell you to go after true love. If it was true love on his side he wouldn't be getting married to another person. And if your own relationship hadn't ended will you be this indecisive?? Imagine someone doing same to you. Oh sorry you won't imagine.... You already know you're out to destroy his own relationship
