life is laced with ridiculous ironies. Doctors make the worst patients and some doctors who are super caring and amazingly dedicated to their patients, do not have time for their families. A lot of comedians who fill other people's lives with fun and laughter, are they themselves depressed. A number of them actually committed suicide.
There are pastors who pray for couples believing God for the fruit of the womb and they conceive, yet the pastors and their wives are still believing God for their miracle. One in particular is a gynaecologist, a very good one at that. Ladies troop to his Hospital because his reputation precedes him, plus he is a pastor . His wife is in the medical field as well. Do you know they had to wait 17 years before their baby arrived? Even if you want to challenge his authenticity as a pastor, what about his prolific medical skills? Women travel from all parts of the country to see him and the success rate is very impressive. How can you explain that?
Sweetie, to answer your questions, a relationship expert is a person who has studied the art of relationships and is qualified in that area and is licensed to give relationship advice to help couples going through challenges. They themselves may have dysfunctional relationships yet they've helped save thousands of relationships. Yeah, people actually book appointments to see them and they render tremendous help. God forbid anyone knows it all but they know quite a lot. They've spent years studying human nature and relationships and some have vast experience under their belts. Unfortunately, being the best marriage counsellor is no guarantee of a happy or successful marriage. The importance of marriage counselling cannot be overemphasised. It has helped save a myriad of marriages.
I'm not sure why it happens the way it does and it's quite unfortunate but it is what it is.