In this article I breakdown my ultra-practical method that will show you exactly how to get laid on Tinder. For those of you guys not familiar, Tinder is the most popular dating app and the first of its kind. Once you match, Tinder works like BBM with near instant responses from girls, to the point where getting her phone number is mostly unnecessary. Tinder is quick and easy to use, because of this and the low investment involved, there are a ton of good looking girls on it, more than on dating sites. The downside to this is because of the low investment, many girls take Tinder less seriously than a dating site, meaning, more time wasters. With this in mind I used a purely sexual profile and asked the right questions to get rid of timewasters. Like all online dating you have to be at least decent looking and in shape, especially if you want to use a sexual profile. The method I outline in How To Get Laid On Tinder, in my opinion, is the most effective and efficient online dating system available today. Not only that but with some slight modifications, you can make it work on any dating platform. CLICK THE IMAGE TO LEARN HOW TO GET LAID ON TINDER Join The Revolution Subscribe now and get instant access to the latest, cutting edge tips on mind, body, spirit, money, women and lifestyle. And as an added bonus you also get a free chapter from each of my four books: How To Get Organized, How To Sell, How To Fuck Women Properly and How To Get Laid On Tinder. Just enter your email below and step your game up today. Just say cool, how does the rest of your week look? On the date you should probe her for any plausible deniability for coming back to her place, seeing her artwork, smoking weed, having a glass of wine. Try and get her to bring something up and suggest that she shows you. If she says, no offer to walk her home and when you get to the door tell her you need to use the bathroom real quick. Actually have the place to myself tomorrow for a few hours. She is the one who made the game extremely sexual. So I asked her if she wanted to meet for coffee then come back to my place for a movie. She initiates the sex talk during that game we played and always used winkie emojis and shit. What do you think? Also, how would I best go about initiating sex when we get back to my place? Im expecting it obviously but what are some signs she will show and how do I get her to come upstairs? Whether she will actually fuck depends on how horny you get her and how much sexual guilt she has. Just throw the movie on, cuddle up for a few minutes then start making out with her and let nature take its course. Check out my closing section on the how to get laid on the first date article. I think my face is not super attractive, but I am not ugly either. I have to say I live in Germany and am 20 years and 6 foot tall. My physique is pretty good, almost like in your pics. So what you think am I doin wrong? I live in a suburb of st Louis but this works. I shit you not, first day I tried it it worked. The girls I have as prospects now are at least an 8. Good thing is, they all just wanna be fwb on a consistent basis. Seriously though, most of these questions everyone is asking we all know the answer to. You just want someone to answer them for you. All you have to do is be assertive and to the point. So what if its out of your comfort zone. Its out of the girls comfort zone too. After you do that and get a commitment, you fluff. I literally copy and past most of my conversations.. All the information that you should explain in your stories I totally agree. With that said, you should ask her if she lives at home before you meet up, that way you know if you going back to hers is an option. If its not then you can always do a hotel. Treat every number as having a one week expiration date and the longer it takes for her to meet up within that week the worse your chances are. In my experience I achieved the same numbers, except with a non-sexual profile. I meet for coffee near my place. I end it quickly and ask if she wants to go to a bar for a drink keep her comfortable with moving places. I usually mention something about artwork I have at my place or similar. From there I find an excuse to drop by my place and ass if she wants to see the artwork. Meet near your place. Get her talking about herself, rather than selling yourself to her. It all went good,laughs,sexual talk,number And once i asked her for. Should i wait until tomorrow or just leave it like that. Got to mention that she 28 im 23. So I asked if we could go to her dorm and she said that her room mates are there studying. Move on to the next girl or just keep messaging her to find out? I wrote above some months ago when I was living in a small town with my parents and was maybe getting wet 1x a month or so. Well, I moved out less than two months ago and it feels like my studio apartment is a brothel. Keep slaying and I will too. But I a not able to get the chicks to hangout with me. Most chicks response that they are just checking the app out and looking for a friend. How do I turn down these objectives? Yep its absolutely still worth it. In Tinder and in everything else women prefer a more gradual approach to sex. The standard is 1-3 dates. The purely sexual approach has a much lower response rate but is extremely efficient in finding DTF women. The standard approach is 1-3 dates aiming to convert it to a sexual relationship. Sorry I just saw this comment now. My expectations for all dates are extremely low and im rarely disappointed. You want to train yourself to be as outcome independent as possible. Truly internalizing that mentality will make your game airtight. The initial stages in meeting women is a lot like cold calling, best not to put much emotional investment in. When this happens outside of tinder, I usually not text them again, but since this is tinder, should I use your bombardment method or end it? Its like fishing in a freshly stocked lake full of hungry trout. I really like your tips and parts of it were kind of hilarious. My match rate seems to be better than yours with the gentleman approach, but your close rate is so much better. I only swipe maybe 40 girls a day I have tinder plus too , and I probably get 5 matches in return. Mostly 6s, a few 7s, some 5s. I never infer sex, and I usually take them out of a formal date. I just banged this chick in New Hampshire and it was her second time having sex she was amazing tho another chick I took her virginity, and one Tinder bout in Hawaii I had this devout Mormon chick go crazy on me due to agression towards her dad lol. If you want less timewasters and more sexual girls than make your profile more sexual hit her with more sexual messages. I get it you want to get laid. In the end you end up old and alone. It really is an unfilling life trust me. You are better off looking for the right woman or you end up the old guy in the bar or some loser at 40 on Eharmony. You can focus all your efforts on getting and keeping that woman only to have the relationship end in divorce like 50% of relationships in North America. Fucking belly fat is killing me to get rid of. Good for you for moving forward but you need to get serious. The fact that you refer to yourself as a slob is unacceptable. Running through girls on Tinder should be a bonus in your life. Getting in shape and having your life dialed in should be much more of a priority. Once you get lean and ripped your responses will triple. I signed up this Monday, late at night, for the first time. Never did bother with Tinder before looking back now, I hate myself. Had a girl come over Tuesday at midnight and we fucked. Since sex was pre planned its not like they got lost in the moment and had ASD the next day. These girls were all sexual and invested in me on a sexual level. Physical appearance is fine, although im not sure what im doing wrong. Most of these girls dont even want to reply. With that said if you want to test it out just buy a month package or if money is tight do the free one and just max your message limit out every day, that will still get you a good sample size. It resets every 12 hours. I would just keep swiping, message the ones you like from your matches and go from there. When I first got it, I would use my matches up when I got into work around 8am, and then would go through them again around 8-9 at night…repeat the cycle. Hell I literally just got home from meeting up with a tinder chick about 90 minutes ago. The biggest key is do not BS with talking in text, get their number and get them to meet pronto. I used to always reset. However I dumped my gf and back on it. Got 50 matches, I live in london. My question is, the settings aka location. I do certain hotspots and swipe the shit out of them where girls are. Or is it better to just set it to 25km from my place and swipe like crazy? Or do the hot spots aswell. Like when is the limit? Thanks so much for the reply. So you dont think doing the hotspots is good? I live north of my city. And the hot spots are like 10-20km away from my current city. You reckon just blitz through 25km? Also how many swipes should I be doing daily? Lastly do you think evenings are better then during the day? I agree with you that 95% of the women there are timewasters but you can find a couple out of every 100 who are down to meet at least. Any concerns on a co-worker finding your extremely sexual profile? I had a co-worker tell me once she found me on tinder. So i suggest be upfront to ur intentions. The cleaner n clearer u are, the greater chances u get laid. I have been doin this lifestyle for 8mo and yes i fucked 25 different cool n not cool men between 18 to 40… Good tip, I always fall for hot and gorgeoues body with great attitude and respectful guy. And yes schedule matters to me and if you have your own place, greater chances u get laid with me. Just tips and Will, thank you for making me aware that all men have the pigful nature…lol…in a sarcastic way. But i love men especially the kind hearted ones. Oh i also have done pitty fuck where i feel sorry for d guy n gave him a one good night! Men u guys need to know how to grind in rhythm and biting is hot if the girl is hot for it too! The profile and article is designed solely to get laid off Tinder hence the title and the 90% first date close rate. Thing is, she lives 40 miles away. With that said its up to you. If you have plenty of other options I would cancel. We sound very similar. I have around 3000 matches in quite a small city so I use a very similar approach to this. Do you plough ahead and let them come over anyway, or do you write them off as time wasters? Keep up the good work. And make sure to give her 20% boyfriend treatment after. Meaning you cuddlle with her for a bit, talk sweet, not just boot her out and expect to see her again. Your site is amazing. I read one of your articles and I was instantly hooked. You explain so many topics regarding women, dating, and sex in ways that have never been explained before. Just have a few questions for you. Have you experimented using Match to hookup with girls? If so, how did your numbers compare with Tinder, Ok Cupid, and POF? How much does penis size matter when trying to hookup with a girl? For sex an average sized cock is perfectly fine for all but the 5-10% of women who are size queens. You can master foreplay and use positions to your advantage — missionary with her legs up and your cock aimed at her g spot. I messaged a girl saying if she is interested in meeting up. She said yes, I suggested we meet at a bar on Saturday night. She said that would be easier. Is it worth meeting ,nor is she a time waster? She is quite attractive. Was about to meet a girl yesterday, but just before 3 hours of meeting for coffee, she flaked and told her head was pounding and had to go for dinner with her best friend. She also told she can meet anytime this week or the weekend. Not sure if she is dtf, what do i say again? Which is the best day to meetup? I ended up telling her that I used to have a crush on her and she replied saying that she did too. What should I do now? I got a few months of beard going and I know I look more attractive without the beard, sexually I mean but I appear much more approachable and easy to talk to with the beard. Which do you think is more important in your chances of banging a girl after a date? Months growth is not, especially those giant hipster beards guys are growing, those are a big no for all but a few girls. I just bought your book and I must say it was a good read and interesting to be able to pick at your brain and reasoning on what you did and why. That will prevent the big ones like aids and syphillis — blood borne diseases. Every new girl you fuck increases the probability of getting something so all you can do is practice safe sex or limit the amount of girls you fuck. I must say you are a genius. Usually i used to be a sensitive, gentle, talking about cultural stuffs , movies etc just to impress them and then try to fuck them. But it is really so fucking incredible how girls that i treated like gave a fuck to me. So i created an acc without my face due common friends, familly and etc just shirtless. Told in profile that i just would like to have fun and casual sex. That i would not be their princes however we could have some fun. And they were very willing to have sex. I did the same with ladies that i havent got any answer for 2 months and even these ladies answered me , i ve fucked some of them. And it was like you said … beeing sincere is the key. Beeing fucking direct You wont waste your time and energy with girls that are there only passing time and girls that are up for sex will be interested for my surprise it is a lot of them , i would say 70% of girls that i talked were up to have sex. And must agree you are amazing if i ve meet you earlier i would save time. But i m not sure if the cock picture on whatsapp would work …. Why sending the cock picture, what is the intention , i didnt get it , maybe it could scare them , i tried just twice because those lady were dirty and asked me for that haha. WILL FREEMEN IS A SOCIAL GENIUS!!!! I agree its a massive change when you start speaking from a place of authenticity, not just in your dating life but in your life as a whole. When you walk tall and announce to the world that you act in your self interest unashamedly it completely changes your reality and how people respond to you. Most people try and cloak all their intentions in this phony altruism, like the guy trying to befriend the girl to sneak his way into her pants. Compare this to a guy like Donald Trump who just states his intentions and does what he wants. They have a shitload of other guys trying to fuck them 2. They have no clue what the hell they really want 3. I think your totally right about being stright up sincere and assertive. If you act like a door mat then you only going to get walked on. And should I thanks for yesterday and that was cozy beside what she treating me? Sounds like she got rude because she was nervous about sex and maybe upset at having given up her sexual power too early — but ither way I get of rude girls quick. Wish you all luck. And i am watching your videos on youtube and following your website. I ve noticed that you talk about many stuffs , like business , style, work out , food , dating , neuroscience , relationships in general how to behave with other peoples and etc. Then let me ask you a thing , what do you think about biohacking ourself with hormones testosterone, oxan, gh , trembolone, deca , dura and etc , sialis , supplements whey , bcaa , modafinil, caffeine, choline, bacopa, ghinko for focus and memory and etc. Do you think it is a good idea to improve ourself as human beeing or just an anti-ethic way or the harm dont compensate the beneffits. How can I follow up with that any idea? First off try it and see if it works. Could you give some examples what to write there? What do u think? I can get a girl to go out on a date with me but after the first date they are usually apprehensive about coming to my places for a second or third date. As I said getting a date is not a problem, closing is the problem for me. I come up three inexpensive date but not sure how to close after any of them, if you get this can you assist? This is why for just sex I advocate being so ruthless. If you want casual sex do exactly as I outlined on Tinder or if you want experience and a more traditional route go for the traditional 3 -5 dates. The replies I do get are girls that seem like they want something more. These girls are only there to wasting time and get validation. She might also give another person your info. Before you know it, you now have 10+ crazy hoes that can bring drama and danger to your home in the long run. As for seeing a girl who has sex on the first night, for sure. I do however have one question. I currently live in a small town so tinder is not really popular here. However I was wondering when I do go to the city I stay at my friends apartment. Do I just tell her if we can do it at her place? Is it ok to do it at her place or is it traditional to do it at the guys place? Is there really any objection to doing it at her place? I swear like 80% of my matches are either fatties, or girls who only show photos of their face which should make your alarm bells go off. This is kinda frustrating… any tips on screening would be appreciated. Great and well written article nonetheless! However this is mostly based on the assumption that you actually get matches. I have been using tinder for over 6 months now on and off and other dating sites for even longer and have had literally 0 matches. This failure rate is soul destroying and thoroughly depressing. Yes I tried the mass spam approach and I get nothing. Obviously there is something wrong with my photos. It appears I am not photogenic at all. But it makes me wonder. I welcome any feedback or advice. As for women online, they are incredibly superficial, even for me the top guys its still a big numbers game. And yes women are racist when it comes to datinng, no matter what they tell you. With that said no need to get depressed over what some broads on Tinder think. The move is to get in where you fit in. Try again with the best pics you can, if no luck, just start doing day game where the girls are already looking at you. Also, by making an extra effort to approach middle easter women your lay percentages will go up. No need to get upset, just find a way to win. Keep your head up player and find a way to win. Most of these girls have profiles that state they are not down for hookups,. I like the Gronk approach of right swiping everyone, but I like many others are using the free app and cannot swipe without running out. Do we actually have to read and screen ourselves before we screen the time-wasters? All girls are on their to hookup but the vast majority are also timewasters. But I have the physique of an NFL offensive lineman. But I still find myself getting plenty of matches with most of them willing to meet up. A lot of guys think girls will just ignore pro looking pictures as it seems try hard, not true, online is 90% about looks, so the better you can make yourself look in pictures, the better your responses will be. This girl wanted to have sex like on the first day. My question to you is, this girl really wants to have sex with me its obvious with what she tells me and i think its def going down, however she really wants me to sign up to this site to verify im not some creeper should i drop the 100 dollar subscription fee bc im totally feeling this girl? Already dropped 30 dollars to get her email address things are getting serious. Could she just be a timewaster? Awesome book you are a social genius and the whole thing works as evidenced by how far ive gotten with this horny girl hehehe. What do you recommend i do? Tinder is not like it use to be. Why do they even swipe right? Is that for getting attention from guys who look good? I suspect another one should close in about 2 or so weeks school holidays in New Zealand, and she has 3 teenage sons. Your article is a real service. As I see it, it is based on complete honesty and both offers and demands respect — the exact opposite of the Trump approach to life. When you were following the approach you describe, did you try to turn some or all of your lays into fuck buddies? If so, what was your success rate and how did that work out for you and them? Do you have any advice on how to get them to be available for booty calls? She says no so try again in 5?? So lovely of you to spread this poison — no mention of make sure you honour her boundaries, make sure both parties consent, be authentic straightforward? Hope you have a daughter one day and see the value in a human being. Man just rot… or better yet — take this site down and learn to soothe your insecure weak as piss character Wait, Do You Want A Free Chapter From All Four Of My Books? Subscribe now and get a free chapter from each of my four books: How To Get Organized, How To Sell, How To Fuck Women Properly and How To Get Laid On Tinder. Plus you also get instant access to my latest tips on mind, body, spirit, money, women and lifestyle. Just enter your email below.
